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Unread postby cougar4327 » 26 November 2019, 22:08

I am a man, who gets sexual aroused MUCH more thinking of having sex with men than woman ---am I gay?
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Re: Being Gay

Unread postby Marmaduke » 26 November 2019, 22:17

Does it matter what you label it?
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Re: Being Gay

Unread postby cougar4327 » 26 November 2019, 23:23

yes
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Re: Being Gay

Unread postby Marmaduke » 26 November 2019, 23:30

Why? What difference does the label make?
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Re: Being Gay

Unread postby cougar4327 » 26 November 2019, 23:56

Looking for confirmation----is my feelings for gay sex just like a liking for candy or is more than that...the arousal's comes and goes--but it always comes back BIG TIME -- nothing like for woman---recent occurrences last 8-9 years.
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Re: Being Gay

Unread postby Capt._Trips » 27 November 2019, 01:17

You've asked this exact question a few times. And I have a feeling you know the answer.
But I'm with Marmaduke. If your enjoying yourself there is no need to HAVE to give it a label. Just enjoy yourself. Your cougar4327 and you like what you like and that's all you need to be.
Someone here giving or not giving confirmation won't change that at all
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Re: Being Gay

Unread postby cougar4327 » 27 November 2019, 03:12

thank you----you answered my question---I know the answer ----acceptance is the answer ----
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Re: Being Gay

Unread postby cougar4327 » 27 November 2019, 03:34

Let me ask this if I may: I am more physically attracted to woman, but not NEAR as MUCH physically aroused having sex with men--explain that --MUCH rather have sex with men---explain that, please
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Re: Being Gay

Unread postby Eryx » 27 November 2019, 03:58

Everyone's different in that regard, people feel attraction differently. There's no explanation, it just is what it is.
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Re: Being Gay

Unread postby Capt._Trips » 27 November 2019, 04:00

Idk if your being a smartass. But it literally is the only answer. If you don't accept yourself for you. Then you will never be truly happy with yourself. But like I said there is no need in wondering what you are, or what you want or like. You want or like what you do because you are you. It's why everyone is different. :keke:

Could you imagine if we all liked the same thing?
God, life would be boring. :shake:
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Re: Being Gay

Unread postby cougar4327 » 27 November 2019, 04:20

I do believe any doubts of my sexuality was erased two weeks ago----after getting sexual aroused I went to a local adult book store and eagerly gave oral sex. Another man straddled the a bench in front of me inviting me to have anal sex---I got so sexually excited I had an organism before I could enter him---I need to stop asking questions about being gay--Accept the reality ---Thoughts?
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Re: Being Gay

Unread postby cougar4327 » 27 November 2019, 04:35

If I had gay sex over 50 times in the last two years and no sex with a woman---what would i be considered?
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Re: Being Gay

Unread postby Eryx » 27 November 2019, 13:09

What do you think? There's no amount of gay sex that makes you gay, once is enough.
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Re: Being Gay

Unread postby cougar4327 » 27 November 2019, 15:49

ToErfx and others: I would presume then, that over 50 gay sex encounters I have had in the last 2 years would make it quite obvious I should consider myself GAY?.
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Re: Being Gay

Unread postby Eryx » 27 November 2019, 17:06

Unless you still plan on having sex with women, yes, that period was overwhelmingly gay, I'd even say it was relatively promiscuous. There are out gay guys out there who had less sex than you.

If you're still interested in women, then you're bisexual. I'm not replying to this again lol.
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Re: Being Gay

Unread postby cougar4327 » 27 November 2019, 20:10

Thank you---I am now TOTALLY convinced I am GAY
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Re: Being Gay

Unread postby Jzone » 27 November 2019, 20:54

Thank goodness we can finally put that question to rest.
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Re: Being Gay

Unread postby cougar4327 » 27 November 2019, 23:22

Sorry for being such a pain in the ass for questioning if I was gay. What a jerk---of course I am GAY---I am 100% GAY What a wonderful feeling of finally accept that pleasing another man sexually and arousing him is much more pleasing than arousing and pleasing a woman and is perfectly normal for me to feel that way---excuse for being crude--but having a had cock in my mouth is the best sexual pleasure I have ever had. It is what I feel and I need to embrace those feelings and pleasures. ACCEPTANCE
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Re: Being Gay

Unread postby kenzie_matt » 28 November 2019, 05:50

Congrats. Enjoy your new-found revelation and go spread your seed. Only advice I can add here is no glove, no love.
That being said, your choice
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