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Re: Christianity and being gay

Unread postby PopTart » 10 August 2020, 17:55

Valso wrote:Is it just me or that does sound dirty? :lol: :lol:

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Well, jesus was apparantly all about group activities.

Why not the circle jerk?
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Re: Christianity and being gay

Unread postby Ander1969 » 8 September 2020, 02:29

poolerboy0077 wrote:
Ander1969 wrote:Where does Jesus teach that homosexuality is bad?

Have you ever prayed and noticed he never responds? He’s disappointed in your faggotry, son. Sometimes it’s the things he doesn’t say that give his opinion of you away.

Actually quite the opposite for me. There have been a few occasions where, apart from giving thanks, I have prayed for help and I have received it. Coincidence? Maybe and maybe not. But I believe that the Lord gives you what you need, not what you want.
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Re: Christianity and being gay

Unread postby Ander1969 » 8 September 2020, 03:09

Dave67 wrote:God made you who you are, God does not make mistakes. That being said how can a maker not love all his children unconditionally? I didn't do anything to make me gay, I was born this way so how is it my fault?
Trying to be something you are not is not living and not being who you are is just as bad, I know. I have tried to deny who I am my whole life with the exception of 10 yrs I was coming out to a lot of people but never could my family so I went back in. Now all I think about is how it could be if I had the guts then to just say eff it and came out.

Just about everyday I think about what it would be like to live with a man and be in a serious relatiionship but I chickened out and went back to what I was comfortable with even though my gf now has said she thinks I might be in the closet. I gues she is ok with it as we have been together 10 yrs. I have never cheated bug I have cravings for man sex a lot. I often think if I did have sex with a man would she care as she already thinks I am bi. I am bi I guess but would prefer just being gay as men are the only thing I think of when thinking of sex.

If she would not mind me having my man sex when the need arises I think we could be together forever as I do love her but I cannot get man sex off my mind as much as I could when I was younger. The older I get the more I want men. Make sense to anyone?


Dude, this makes total sense. That was my life. I was happily married to a woman for 10 years, with two kids, until this whole gay thing fell on me. I had a crisis with no one to turn to that made me need male companionship, and that rolled into a desire for male affection. I quietly played around a little just to test me desires, and once confirmed, I came out to my wife.

We duked it out for a while and and the marriage nearly ended, her fighting got really dirty and I just took it because I felt I deserved it. It was all my fault. But once I was able to make her understand why I needed and craved male companionship, she understood. She became my best alli and helped me on my journey. She even cruised craigslist for guys for me.

Eventually we aggreed on this one guy who was coming to town and she let me go meet him for the night. Well, he and I hit it off and we became a couple too. Slowly he joined our family, my wife and kids adored him and he adored us, all of us. The joke was that he and her had joint custody of me!

To outsiders, they just couldn't figure out who this guy was and why we all spent so much time together. I just called him my best friend. My wife loved the secrecy and she jokingly called him her second husband. And we learned that she had a fetish for man on man sex. Though she never joined in on any of our sessions, she sure lived to hear all about it.

But my life changed drastically when her and my mom were both diagnosed with advanced cancer just weeks apart. Thankfully he never left my side. He'd come to take my mom to radiation when I had to take my wife for chemo and sometimes the other way around. It was insane and I nearly went mad. I also still had two little kids to raise.

This went on for almost 10 years. To make a long story short, both my mom and my wife have passed and now it's him, I and the kids.

So guess what, it can happen and it does happen. And I am so thankful for the experiences I've had in this life and the chance I took at happiness.
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Re: Christianity and being gay

Unread postby Jryski » 8 September 2020, 21:12

Ander1969 wrote:
Dave67 wrote:God made you who you are, God does not make mistakes. That being said how can a maker not love all his children unconditionally? I didn't do anything to make me gay, I was born this way so how is it my fault?
Trying to be something you are not is not living and not being who you are is just as bad, I know. I have tried to deny who I am my whole life with the exception of 10 yrs I was coming out to a lot of people but never could my family so I went back in. Now all I think about is how it could be if I had the guts then to just say eff it and came out.

Just about everyday I think about what it would be like to live with a man and be in a serious relatiionship but I chickened out and went back to what I was comfortable with even though my gf now has said she thinks I might be in the closet. I gues she is ok with it as we have been together 10 yrs. I have never cheated bug I have cravings for man sex a lot. I often think if I did have sex with a man would she care as she already thinks I am bi. I am bi I guess but would prefer just being gay as men are the only thing I think of when thinking of sex.

If she would not mind me having my man sex when the need arises I think we could be together forever as I do love her but I cannot get man sex off my mind as much as I could when I was younger. The older I get the more I want men. Make sense to anyone?


Dude, this makes total sense. That was my life. I was happily married to a woman for 10 years, with two kids, until this whole gay thing fell on me. I had a crisis with no one to turn to that made me need male companionship, and that rolled into a desire for male affection. I quietly played around a little just to test me desires, and once confirmed, I came out to my wife.

We duked it out for a while and and the marriage nearly ended, her fighting got really dirty and I just took it because I felt I deserved it. It was all my fault. But once I was able to make her understand why I needed and craved male companionship, she understood. She became my best alli and helped me on my journey. She even cruised craigslist for guys for me.

Eventually we aggreed on this one guy who was coming to town and she let me go meet him for the night. Well, he and I hit it off and we became a couple too. Slowly he joined our family, my wife and kids adored him and he adored us, all of us. The joke was that he and her had joint custody of me!

To outsiders, they just couldn't figure out who this guy was and why we all spent so much time together. I just called him my best friend. My wife loved the secrecy and she jokingly called him her second husband. And we learned that she had a fetish for man on man sex. Though she never joined in on any of our sessions, she sure lived to hear all about it.

But my life changed drastically when her and my mom were both diagnosed with advanced cancer just weeks apart. Thankfully he never left my side. He'd come to take my mom to radiation when I had to take my wife for chemo and sometimes the other way around. It was insane and I nearly went mad. I also still had two little kids to raise.

This went on for almost 10 years. To make a long story short, both my mom and my wife have passed and now it's him, I and the kids.

So guess what, it can happen and it does happen. And I am so thankful for the experiences I've had in this life and the chance I took at happiness.

That is quite beautiful. *hugs*
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