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Cursed to be alone!?

Unread postby SexySnowflake » 31 March 2020, 14:08

Hi all!
I'm new to the scene but I really need some advice. I don't know if this is normal or not, but I have fallen for a guy online. He actually works in one of the online chat rooms! I met him on a site called lovemegiftme.com

He's really really sweet, I've spoken to him a number of times and, I dunno, I think he likes me too. His name is Arion.

Has anyone else fallen for someone online? Does it ever work out??
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Re: Cursed to be alone!?

Unread postby René » 31 March 2020, 14:13

And you're sure you're not a spammer, right? :shifty:

In case you're not: yes and yes. This community is actually where I met my husband. We were long-distance (transatlantic, in fact) for almost a year, then got married and settled down together. Our 10th anniversary is about a week from now :)
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Re: Cursed to be alone!?

Unread postby Eryx » 31 March 2020, 19:11

I have, when I was younger, but once I started meeting people in real life and having real relationships, the neediness relented and online relationships didn't interest me anymore. I think it's unnecessary hardship and lacks basic aspects that a human being needs to feel like they're really with someone. I guess it does work for a few people, though, so what do I know? Usually it involved getting physical at some point, anyway.
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Re: Cursed to be alone!?

Unread postby René » 31 March 2020, 19:43

Eryx wrote:I have, when I was younger, but once I started meeting people in real life and having real relationships, the neediness relented and online relationships didn't interest me anymore. I think it's unnecessary hardship and lacks basic aspects that a human being needs to feel like they're really with someone. I guess it does work for a few people, though, so what do I know? Usually it involved getting physical at some point, anyway.

That is kind of the point. Obviously talking online isn't exactly going to be the end goal!

If you really click with someone who lives far away and it's so obvious you can tell even through a forum and instant messaging, and you see a path to getting together in person and having a future together, and it actually seems to work better than it ever has with anyone who lived closer, why not go for it?

That's the situation Brenden and I were in, and actually, we probably exchanged more words through MSN Messenger in a few weeks than most emerging couples do in months and months of getting to know each other through regular dating. We knew each other really well before we were ever laid eyes on each other in person. :3 There was nothing un"real" about our relationship before that point (as also evidenced by the fact that it's still going after 11 years).
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Re: Cursed to be alone!?

Unread postby Marmaduke » 31 March 2020, 20:11

That link is to a cam show porn site. How you’d find it without someone like OP advertising it to you, I have no idea. It’s not on the first 10 pages if you google “xxx cam show” and by then, surely you’ve cum?

Arion - if he is real, that’s not his real name - is a sex worker, the job of whom it is to give you the impression that they like you in exchange for money.

I know I asked to not be characterised as a suspicious curmudgeon, but I really don’t know who the moron is here. Is it the OP for thinking that a cam model loves him? Or is it you two for not thinking this is obviously spam?

Can we all agree that there is an element of moronity at work here?
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Re: Cursed to be alone!?

Unread postby Remington » 23 May 2020, 03:56

Actually I have fallen for people online and they have fallen for me. They were not sex workers and I have even met a couple of them in person. That's my story and I'm sticking to it
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Re: Cursed to be alone!?

Unread postby Ander1969 » 23 May 2020, 04:09

Actually I have met two guys on line. The first I was with for just over three years, and my fella now is over 10 years. The trick is to meet them in person ASAP and take the relationship off line. Then you may have a chance.
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