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Flirt with other guys at night clubs that are NOT gay clubs...?

Unread postby Kimmie00 » 27 October 2021, 19:22

I have always wanted to flirt with other guys in real life at some public event - like for example a night club - but my home regions don't really have that many gay club events at all, except maybe 2-3 times a year or so, and I don't feel like travelling far away for this.
So I was wondering, do you have any experience with showing interest for other guys at clubs that don't specifically target the gay community?
I would have much more opportunities for this if I could just visit any random regular night club, but I also want to show interest in a good way.
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Re: Flirt with other guys at night clubs that are NOT gay clubs...?

Unread postby AGIS » 8 November 2021, 11:31

Sure. Just flirt with them. You aren't going to know if they are into it or not unless you do.
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Unread postby asianduck888 » 19 November 2021, 09:54

the only interaction i ever did with straight guy, when i was on motorbike and i wink to a guy doing morning run. and i dont know if he see me on helmet or not. lol
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Re: Flirt with other guys at night clubs that are NOT gay clubs...?

Unread postby pozzie » 19 November 2021, 21:07

I'll be honest, years ago I was 'accused' of not only flirting with straight men but having them flirt back in totally normal settings (ie not gay) like work. I never really thought I was flirting, I was being interested and friendly, but clearly to others my behavior was interpreted as flirty. So I guess I would/could have flirted with guys in straight bars, clubs, etc even if that wasn't my intent.

I have hooked up with guys in non-gay settings, but that's rarely been my intent. It's more like it just sort of happened because we both found ourselves there and 'interested.'
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Re: Flirt with other guys at night clubs that are NOT gay clubs...?

Unread postby Jack C » 20 November 2021, 01:23

pozboro wrote:I'll be honest, years ago I was 'accused' of not only flirting with straight men but having them flirt back in totally normal settings (ie not gay) like work. I never really thought I was flirting, I was being interested and friendly, but clearly to others my behavior was interpreted as flirty. So I guess I would/could have flirted with guys in straight bars, clubs, etc even if that wasn't my intent....


Usually this is how it works. If people know you're gay (at Church, workplace, casual social gatherings of any sort...etc ...etc....), they tend to translate your behavior in a certain way....whereas if you were straight to them, they would just consider you friendly.
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Re: Flirt with other guys at night clubs that are NOT gay clubs...?

Unread postby Jack C » 20 November 2021, 01:24

AGIS wrote:Sure. Just flirt with them. You aren't going to know if they are into it or not unless you do.


At the risk of getting a black eye, but who knows maybe it's worth it. :D
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