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Re: My relationship with my dad helps

Unread postby Peter123777 » 13 October 2021, 13:29

guyreal01 wrote:I understand what you are telling me and I agree on many points of your opinion but I must be honest with you I do not feel obliged to do anything with my father what I am is mentally worried that I do not want to damage my relationship with him. I think that if my relationship with him can be destroyed by that but I also think that this could unite us more. I have a mental duality, he is the most sexual man I have ever known. He wants to see me fuck another man but I think if he wants to fuck with me later. I don't want to be too explicit but there are things that my mind cannot avoid when thinking about him. I do not know if this will pass me over time, currently I try to be in my room but every time we interact in the house he talks to me he looks at me in a passionate way and that excites me a lot but then I run to my room



I understand that you have some physical/sexual attraction to your dad and that's understandable. However, as other people already reacted to your post already, I would highly suggest you avoid any kind of sexual interaction with your father, whether it's having sexual relationships with him directly or with others in front of him. That's a recipe for big troubles. Worst case scenario it can damage you psychologically in profound ways which can destroy you mentally, emotionally and spiritually for many years to come. Less severe scenario, it can ruin the relationship between you and your father for many years to come and even for life.

If you feel mentally and emotionally ready to act on sexual attractions and impulses you have, go and find romantic and/or sexual partners your own age, not 30 years older than you and definitely not your dad. You’re very young, all your life is in front of you. I wouldn’t reject the possibility of having relationships with girls either. Sexual orientation isn’t always completely a fixed matter and it can fluctuate, especially at young ages.

Protect yourself, be you own “personal guard”. If you act on your father suggestions, it’s a possibility that is would be the beginning of very controlling and even sadistic relationships between you and him. I would suggest you to start exercising in a local gym, develop strength and stamina, so that you’ll have more confidence and if necessary, you can protect yourself psychically.
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Re: My relationship with my dad helps

Unread postby Peter123777 » 13 October 2021, 13:57

guyreal01 wrote:I don't know if because of my age my father is manipulating me unconsciously but I am honest with my reactions and feelings maybe I don't have that much sexual experience or anything like that sometimes I think that maybe my mother's death has it so only that it focuses on my for that


I don't know either and it doesn't matter, you should definitely avoid acting on those impulses as the result might be catastrophic. I can be honest and say I've had sexual urges to act upon relating to my younger sister, but I've never acted or even thought of acting on them. Of course, that’s because of the very problematic implications it would cause me, my sister and my family in general (even if it was completely agreed and desired by her).

An example with very less severe consequences, would be having a relationship with a girl/guy that’s working with you in the same office, every day. If the relationship goes well, then everything’s is fine, but if something goes wrong and you still have to meet and work with them everyday after that, then it would be very uncomfortable and disturbing experience for both of you. With a family member it’s much worse and it’s for lifetime. DO NOT DO THAT.
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Re: My relationship with my dad helps

Unread postby guyreal01 » 13 October 2021, 15:02

Thank you
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Re: My relationship with my dad helps

Unread postby Peter123777 » Yesterday, 19:45

guyreal01 wrote:Thank you


How it's going for you?
Things moving in a positive direction?
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