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Re: How do I deal with having guilt feelings in having gay sex

Unread postby Jzone » 29 September 2019, 00:59

So let's agree to agree, Eryx? If anyone wants us we'll be over here by the bar.
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Re: How do I deal with having guilt feelings in having gay sex

Unread postby cougar4327 » 29 September 2019, 02:29

Good "stuff."Let me ask this: I been told to look a picture of a beautiful naked woman. Then look at a picture of a beautiful naked man. Which anuses you sexual would give you an indication of you sexual preference. Another determination would be to look at a picture of beautiful naked woman and a beautiful naked man and whatever your eyes focus on will give a good indication of your sexual preference. In both incidences I was focused and aroused by the man. Thoughts?
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Re: How do I deal with having guilt feelings in having gay sex

Unread postby Jzone » 29 September 2019, 02:46

You haven't said anything about how much are are attracted to or aroused by women. You also haven't said if you are romantically attracted to men. This would help us have a better idea about what is going on for you. Regardless, it is possible to love both. I do.
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Re: How do I deal with having guilt feelings in having gay sex

Unread postby Eryx » 29 September 2019, 02:58

Yeah, but realistically, you're gay.

Also, another update: the guy apparently had a bad meeting on Grindr and asked to come here so he can go home discreetly. It's all bullshit, he didn't need me, he could just use an excuse and go home. This is getting a little bit more on the "too much" region.
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Re: How do I deal with having guilt feelings in having gay sex

Unread postby Jzone » 29 September 2019, 03:29

Eryx, you mean the guy from your "too soon" thread? It's time to stop being nice to him.
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Re: How do I deal with having guilt feelings in having gay sex

Unread postby cougar4327 » 29 September 2019, 04:19

Good questions. and thoughtful. I enjoy looking at attractive woman, but not aroused, as I am looking at a naked man. I have not been romantically involved with a man or woman for some years. The thought I could get involved with a man romantically is not likely. I am not looking for romance. I m looking for companionship and thoughtful dialogue and I find men more suitable for that than woman. No possibility I getting romantically involved with a woman. Most woman quite frankly are highly over rated.
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Re: How do I deal with having guilt feelings in having gay sex

Unread postby Eryx » 29 September 2019, 15:05

You need to accept that and go be happy. You live in the USA, you can have a fulfilling life as a gay man there. Don't waste the opportunity. That will mean you're wasting your time on Earth worrying when you could be with somebody else.

Jzone, yeah, I probably should. So far it seems harmless. I'm focusing on emphasizing that friendship is all we're ever gonna get.
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Re: How do I deal with having guilt feelings in having gay sex

Unread postby PandaBoo » 30 September 2019, 09:19

Well if you have guilt for doing gay sex, then you probably shouldn't be doing it then.
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Re: How do I deal with having guilt feelings in having gay sex

Unread postby PandaBoo » 30 September 2019, 09:20

Well if you have guilt for doing gay sex, then you probably shouldn't be doing it then.
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