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how much better is gay sex?

Unread postby cougar4327 » 29 December 2019, 02:24

For those of us who were never dreamed in having sex with another man and once having sex with a man, how long did it take to admit having sex with a man is so much enjoyable than having sex with a woman? How long did it take to only start watching gay porn? For those who are bi, what is better - gay or straight sex.?
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Unread postby Derek » 29 December 2019, 05:12

The way you posed this question makes it sound like there is only one correct answer.
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Unread postby René » 29 December 2019, 17:23

I'm not bi and have never been with a woman, but I can only imagine the answer is highly personal and dependent on relative gayness on the part of the bisexual individual.
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Unread postby Marmaduke » 29 December 2019, 17:26

73% better, 46% of the time.
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Unread postby mxguy01 » 30 December 2019, 00:28

cougar4327 wrote:... how long did it take to admit having sex with a man is so much enjoyable than having sex with a woman? ...


Well I suspect the answer for most would be the 1st time. Hopefully this is sufficient for your need to know.
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Unread postby JoelR » 30 December 2019, 01:52

I don't think there's a 'yes / no' easy answer. There are some parts that can be more enjoyable, some parts that are a pain in the ass (literally LOL), and totally different mechanics. You can't give a blowjob to a woman, but you can eat her out.
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Unread postby Eryx » 30 December 2019, 03:51

Humans are not Barbie and Ken doll factories for us all to come out wired the same...
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Unread postby poolerboy0077 » 30 December 2019, 04:19

Not to invoke Ogi Ogas for the millionth time but I recall he once mentioned a study in his Google Talk in which participants had sex in front of spectators and they rated the gay couples as looking more satisfied than the straight ones. I found that funny.
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Unread postby cougar4327 » 31 December 2019, 00:48

How many men, who for years thought they were straight, after they had gay sex never went back to sex with women? ---I did not---after my first gay sex it was never the same again--I realize now once I found I was a Gay bottom and really enjoyed pleasing a man, there was no other way to turn back straight!.
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Unread postby René » 31 December 2019, 05:25

cougar4327 wrote:How many men, who for years thought they were straight, after they had gay sex never went back to sex with women? ---I did not---after my first gay sex it was never the same again--I realize now once I found I was a Gay bottom and really enjoyed pleasing a man, there was no other way to turn back straight!.

I never got this "deciding your sexual orientation based on how much you enjoy having which kind of sex" thing. I knew I was gay when I got my first crush (on a male classmate), and "trying" straight sex is an utterly inconceivable notion for me. Also, it is possible to discover that you're bi (to some extent) at a later stage, but if you ever had feelings for people of the opposite sex, you're definitely not 100% gay. Sexual orientation isn't something you decide on, anyway — it's something you discover.
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Unread postby NobodySpecial » 1 January 2020, 05:26

I'll say this. I have had only one experience with a woman. The problem was that it was very loose, but then she was middle aged, and I was in my 20's. It felt like fucking a fluffy pillow -- no grip to it what so ever. I'm not going to judge all women based on one experience.

With men, I have had great sex, and I have had horrible sex. Usually what made the difference was the man himself. If it was all about his penis, it did nothing for me -- no matter how physically appealing he might be. If it was about his heart, and wanting me, then typically it could be out of this world. I'm attracted to MEN -- not penises. Yes, I crave a man's ass, but if there isn't a loving man attached to it, it too can be unfulfilling.

If I didn't have the man I want to spend my life with, if I were younger, AND if I had been fertile, I would probably have pursued relationships with women. Sure my heart is more oriented towards men, but I also wanted to sire children. I probably wanted them for the wrong reasons:

I wanted to love them, to prove to myself, I could be a good dad unlike the father I myself had. I was told by relatives that good fatherhood simply wasn't in our genes. Thus the reason I wanted to sire as opposed to adopt. To prove being cruel to your own blood wasn't hereditary.

I also wanted to pass on all that I knew about my family to my children. I wanted them to know how loving my grandma was and her stories about her wonderful ancestors.

Unfortunately, that is the one thing I always found like fate had against me. I was infertile, much stronger attractions to men, a cruel paternal line, and my maternal line
included plenty of bi-polar tendencies. I probably would have been a horrible father, or may have had a problem child. Yet all that aside, if I were single and were fertile, I would have thrown caution to the wind to sire kids.

My partner has two living adult children. He once told me that having a child is like having someone you care so much for that you would rip your own heart out and give it to them if it would save their life.

So I may by far prefer m2m sex, but I will never dis those who chose to procreate. I also wish it were possible for two men to create life. That would be the ultimate. When I';m inside someone I care about, my body wishes I could actually impregnate him. If I could impregnate my partner, I'd want the baby to have my partners, ability to tan, his hairiness, his masculinity, his better health, my teeth (my partner has had several teeth simply chip on him). He should have his disposition, and his curiosity to fix things. Both our curiosity to learn new things, and try new things. I'd like him to have both our love of animals.

When I die nothing of me lives on. I just have to accept that fate, even if I don't like it. Even if one could technically "prove" that m2m sex is always superior, they could never take away the fact that none of us would have a future if it wasn't for str8 intercourse giving us a future.

I'd add that I love going to Christmas church services as I love to sing, but this year I also observed so many fathers holding their kids as they slept in their arms. I wish I would had that with my dad, and I wish I would have had the opportunity to do that myself to my own child. I am SO happy that my partner had that experience. You should see how his face, and his whole body react when he is around his son and his son's children. I will be with him until one of us dies. Where as a part of him will at least continue through his lineage.
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