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How to kiss a guy with stubble?

Unread postby dogdad91 » 3 January 2022, 18:10

I've been dating a guy since November... he's always clean shaven and since he's natutally blond and tan his 5 o'clock shadow is barely visible at all, but when we make out, I end up with an unwanted exfoliation / rug burn on my face. Same thing with his ass; when i fuck him raw, my dick gets literally raw as if using a sandpaper fleshlight

I've never dealt with this since everyone before were either other asians, latinos or much-younger white guys (as opposed to my age). Any solutions short of asking him to laser it off every couple years? Lol
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Re: How to kiss a guy with stubble?

Unread postby Marmaduke » 3 January 2022, 18:39

I don’t think you know what the phrase “always clean shaven” means.
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Re: How to kiss a guy with stubble?

Unread postby René » 3 January 2022, 23:43

dogdad91 wrote:How to kiss a guy with stubble?

It's the same, just hotter :D

I like the scratchiness. Feels, I dunno... rugged, manly? It turns me on.

dogdad91 wrote:I end up with an unwanted exfoliation / rug burn on my face.

Maybe adapt your motions to incur less of that? And/or ask him to use a beard trimmer instead and keep the length a bit longer so it's not (as) scratchy? Last resort, ask him to shave halfway through the day? :P

I've known my boyfriend to shave at work sometimes (though he definitely doesn't have to for me and he generally goes a couple of days in between).

dogdad91 wrote:Same thing with his ass; when i fuck him raw, my dick gets literally raw as if using a sandpaper fleshlight

Personally I'm bored by hairless ones, but it shouldn't sting like that. I'm guessing he shaves there too; I'd suggest he try not doing that, again so it's not so short and scratchy. :)
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Re: How to kiss a guy with stubble?

Unread postby Brenden » 4 January 2022, 16:41

Marmaduke wrote:I don’t think you know what the phrase “always clean shaven” means.

My face is smooth for all of 10 minutes after a shave.
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Re: How to kiss a guy with stubble?

Unread postby pozzie » 4 January 2022, 21:08

I'm pretty much in agreement with René but wonder if a good conditioner might help or even, possible, some lotion on the stubble the night before. The idea is to soften the hairs. Yeah, experimenting with hair length might work too just thinking about the physics of the follicle and all.

You might just have more sensitive skin as well. Keeping it healthy and maybe not shaving on the day before a date to decrease the chance of irritation?

The real difficulty is in working with the other guy: it's much easier if you two are in something longer-term. Can't imagine asking a dude before the second date, "Hey, mind shaving nice and close in case we want to fool around?"

I'm sure in my many years I've had a bit of beard burn, but just don't remember it. As for other parts, well, I've never been into smooth so there's never been an attraction to guys who body shave. I'm guessing waxing would be a preferable solution longer term if the stubble continues to be a source of irritation.
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Re: How to kiss a guy with stubble?

Unread postby Marmaduke » 4 January 2022, 21:26

Brenden wrote:
Marmaduke wrote:I don’t think you know what the phrase “always clean shaven” means.

My face is smooth for all of 10 minutes after a shave.

So describing you as “always clean shaven” would seem inaccurate, would it not?
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Re: How to kiss a guy with stubble?

Unread postby LeeLong73 » 4 January 2022, 23:11

I've been men with no facial hair, but I find a full beard very attractive. I order kissing men with soft full Beards, to the point that kissing a guy with no facial hair is almost a turn off. My future husband MUST have a beard!
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Re: How to kiss a guy with stubble?

Unread postby PopTart » 5 January 2022, 20:20

Stubble can cause some friction.

One does get more used to it with time but it's always an issue.

As others have said, more frequent shaving or more hair growth are the best answers.
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