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In love with my best friend..

Unread postby Biggayal » 5 February 2019, 15:45

After watching love,simon I’ve realised I’ve fallen in love with my best friend. Who is married to a woman. When I go to his house and look after his dogs I sniff his used boxers. What have I become. I need to find a man but how do I do that when I love my best friend? Can someone please help


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Re: In love with my best friend..

Unread postby Eryx » 5 February 2019, 15:50

First, stop sniffing his boxers.

Second, if you think you can't move on while being too close to him, maybe you should get some distance. If you'd like for him to understand why, explain you've developed feelings and that in order for you to feel like yourself again, you need to be in different settings and be with other people.

Third, go out and meet guys who might actually like you back, go on dates, download apps, see other men. It's easier to move on from a platonic attraction when you actually get physical elsewhere.

(And LOL, you needed to see Love, Simon before realizing you liked a friend whose boxers you were sniffing? I'd have realized something was off by that point hahaha)
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Re: In love with my best friend..

Unread postby Biggayal » 5 February 2019, 16:11

Haha no it started after I watched love,simon. I know it’s wierd it just started. But he’s my best friend I don’t think I could tell him let alone distance myself from him.. I’m an idiot
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Re: In love with my best friend..

Unread postby Eryx » 5 February 2019, 16:23

If you can't do either, then just try falling for someone else I guess. Or just keep suffering :shrug:
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Re: In love with my best friend..

Unread postby Biggayal » 5 February 2019, 16:28

Thanks for advice bro
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