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Is stealthing common these days?

Unread postby Harlow_boy » 27 January 2021, 01:23

So I met someone tonight that I met on a popular hookup app (been chatting for a week or so), anyway things start to get hot and heavy and we start going at it in doggy (he was wearing a condom).... After a while he arrives and as he pulls out of me I feel it dripping down my legs.

He pulled the condom of stealth like whilst we were going at it, is this like a common thing now as it happens to me before as well.

Happening to anyone else? With guys from these apps.
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Unread postby Eryx » 27 January 2021, 01:51

I never had that happen to me, but I've heard it happens. Shitty, awful men.

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Unread postby Marmaduke » 27 January 2021, 11:44

I’m pretty sure that’s a crime
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Unread postby René » 27 January 2021, 15:10

I don't know how common such things are, but I've heard stories like this far too many times to think it can possibly be a good idea to make habitual use of such apps.
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Unread postby erti » 27 January 2021, 21:13

Isn’t this a form of sexual assault?
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Unread postby PanicP » 29 January 2021, 01:29

This is going to be really hard for me to write about.
It happened to me about 4 years ago. Very similar circumstances, condom was on, doggy style. After he finished I turned around to see that the condom was already on the floor. I asked him point blank did he just cum inside me and he said yes and smiled. I was terrified of catching HIV.
I didn’t know what else to do, so I ran as fast as I could. I was terrified. I remember crying in the street at about 3am on a Sunday morning, I don’t remember how I got home. I’ve blocked a lot of it from my memory.

I was staying with friends about 4 hours away from where I lived. I remember getting back to my friends apartment and sobbing into a pillow as quietly as I could. I tried to Google a sexual health clinic, but it now being Sunday morning everything was closed. The information about PEP was so limited, I didn’t even know what to google. I had a horrible drive home the next day and had to ring the sexual health clinic on Monday morning from the board room at work.
Ended up at the hospital for bloods and medication which lasted a month. PEP is such a high dosage I was ill for an entire month.
It look me about 2 years to finally be sexually active again. I couldn’t trust anyone.
He was the one that had the condoms so I instantly felt safe with him and this is what he did. I feel sick just writing about it.

Harlow Boy, I don’t know how you feel about the situation or if you are on PReP. However, if you feel as strongly as I did you can get PEP up to 48 hours after the encounter.

Please let me know how you get on. Feel free to PM if you need any more advice.
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Unread postby weedan » 9 February 2021, 19:13

I have been fortunate that this had never happened to me. Any guy who does this is a prick and one day he will do it to the wrong person.
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Unread postby poolerboy0077 » 9 February 2021, 19:26

Sort of reminds me of the Houdini

a magic trick of sorts, when you are banging a chick from behind you fake an orgasm, pull out, and spit on her back jerking off all the while, you must time it right so when she turns around thinking the love making is over, you cum right in her face!
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Unread postby mysterygoldfish » Today, 18:30

That is terrifying. I am so very sorry that this has happened to you.
I didn't even know this was a thing.
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