New to Anal

Jamies1986 wrote:I’m just wondering if anyone has any ideas of how to prepare myself for anal! As In what food is best the day before and on the day ect

Being clean for bottoming is ideally more of a lifestyle choice than something you do in the last 24 hours before having sex.

1. Good diet with plenty of fibre (both soluble and insoluble) and healthy fats (olive, coconut, peanut, sesame, butter, etc.)
2. Drink lots of water (I aim for 7 big glasses or about 2 litres a day myself)
3. Take Pure for Men (I take 3 capsules before breakfast and dinner every day)

These are healthy habits anyway and will reduce your risk of heart disease, diabetes etc.

Be sure to do this consistently for at least a week or so in advance.

I also find it helpful to completely avoid spicy foods and caffeine.

Then make sure you feel like there's nothing there. You can check with a finger (with lube/spit, obviously) to make sure. But a nice top will not want you to be all anxious about being spotless.

"Cleaning" with a dildo or otherwise should not be necessary. Also, a large dildo can actually trigger a defaecation response, causing your colon to send stuff down into your rectum, which is exactly what you don't want.

Jamies1986 wrote:PS, I love it deep and big so DP is what I’m going for lol

Jamies1986 wrote:Thanks! Ye I love DP I regularly use my dildo and it’s 10”. Love it balls deep lol

You don't "love DP" if you've never done it. Also, thickness is very different from length. A long dildo is not similar to two penises entering you simultaneously (unless they are somehow arranged in series rather than parallel).

VagrantMenagerie wrote:Huh... Wasn't aware caffeine affects your digestive tract like that.

I have one cup of coffee to wake up in the morning (maybe two if I'm particularly groggy but it's rare), does that affect much?

We're all different, but I would say it is something to take into account and experiment with for anyone having issues in this area.

Personally, if I have even one cup of regular black tea or coffee in a day, it has a noticeable effect on the amount of time in the day I feel ready for sex (i.e. certain it would be 100% clean). Sticking to decaf, it's not uncommon for me to feel like bottoming 4 times in a day. A single cup of tea in the morning might not have a big impact, but it is usually noticeable, and any more (e.g. 2 cups of tea or 1 cup of coffee) definitely tends to cut it down to 0 or 1 time, 2 at most I'd say.

The reason is that it speeds up your digestive system - among other things, triggering stuff being sent down from your colon into your rectum (and typically in smaller bits that aren't easy to pass).

VagrantMenagerie wrote:Huh... Wasn't aware caffeine affects your digestive tract like that.

I have one cup of coffee to wake up in the morning (maybe two if I'm particularly groggy but it's rare), does that affect much?

It varies a lot from person to person. I know people who drink a single cup of coffee in the morning to trigger a bowel movement. I know other people who drink multiple cups and don't seem to have any side effects. You may also build up a tolerance to it over time, but again that varies by individual.

VagrantMenagerie wrote:I have one cup of coffee to wake up in the morning (maybe two if I'm particularly groggy but it's rare), does that affect much?

Incidentally, I used to drink a lot more coffee, but I noticed that when I quit completely, I started waking up feeling more rested, never feeling groggy anymore. I concluded that the caffeine was actually sticking around in my system long enough to disrupt my sleep, making it so I kept relying on it, and overall I actually felt better, more alert and more motivated day to day if I never drank any.