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Reflections from a straight guy who bottommed

Unread postby StraightGuy28 » 13 March 2020, 21:06

Wife and I are 28, married 7 years, been in the swing scene the past 2. We live in a city with a robust lgbt population and the swing group we belong to is tolerant of all. Last Saturday there was a swingers party that encompassed 3 houses on this cul de sac. Several of the gay men from the group had expected for a bottom to attend at one of the houses that they were going to have sex with. Unfortunately this bottom didnt show up. I consider these gay men to be my friends that I got to know the past couple years and felt bad that they got stood up. I ended up making the offer that if they wanted to I would be the bottom as I have nothing really going on at this party. They talked it over with me, knowing that I am straight they wanted to make sure I was sure about making this offer. I said I felt ok about it and proceeded to go to one of the neighboring houses with them. They told me not to be afraid to speak up if I had a change of mind during it. For the next 3 1/2 hours I bottomed for 7 men. I never really felt into the sex but felt good just knowing I was helping them out. Bottom line is I don't feel any less of a man for doing this. I do feel better as a human being knowing I was able to help some others out who had till that point felt disappointed. I think we would all be better off if we just looked at each other as human beings rather than by our genders and sexual preferences.
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Re: Reflections from a straight guy who bottommed

Unread postby Marmaduke » 14 March 2020, 08:18

You know what? This may be the most selfless act of fictional altruism I’ve ever heard of. I’m gonna write to a fictional pope and get the ball rolling on getting you fictionally canonised. Mother Theresa had nothing on your charity. Though, in her defence, I’d never considered her as having much flair for writing erotic fiction. I may be wrong though, I imagine it would’ve been heterosexual erotica. It’s not really my métier.
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Re: Reflections from a straight guy who bottommed

Unread postby poolerboy0077 » 14 March 2020, 09:04

I honesty don’t understand what people get out of making up stories. My paternal grandpa used to do that, like saying he witnessed a movie level car crash incident when talking about how his day went. Maybe it’s the desire to appear interesting and mesmerize everyone around you?
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Re: Reflections from a straight guy who bottommed

Unread postby Capt._Trips » 14 March 2020, 09:56

How does your wife feel about all of this?
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Re: Reflections from a straight guy who bottommed

Unread postby Marmaduke » 14 March 2020, 10:01

Capt._Trips wrote:How does your wife feel about all of this?

She was next door, engaged in some similarly altruistic scissoring with the lesbians of the cul-de-sac.
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Re: Reflections from a straight guy who bottommed

Unread postby rogonandi » 14 March 2020, 10:11

Marmaduke wrote:
Capt._Trips wrote:How does your wife feel about all of this?

She was next door, engaged in some similarly altruistic scissoring with the lesbians of the cul-de-sac.

Her sexual adventures actually happened though, but she only scissored five lesbian ladies.
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Re: Reflections from a straight guy who bottommed

Unread postby Marmaduke » 14 March 2020, 10:50

rogonandi wrote:
Marmaduke wrote:
Capt._Trips wrote:How does your wife feel about all of this?

She was next door, engaged in some similarly altruistic scissoring with the lesbians of the cul-de-sac.

Her sexual adventures actually happened though, but she only scissored five lesbian ladies.

Yeah, but there were two further lesbians who preferred to be referred to as gender fluid.
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Re: Reflections from a straight guy who bottommed

Unread postby Subra » 14 March 2020, 12:30

I'd peg you for a fibber.
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Re: Reflections from a straight guy who bottommed

Unread postby René » 14 March 2020, 14:09

:lol:
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Re: Reflections from a straight guy who bottommed

Unread postby StraightGuy28 » 14 March 2020, 15:42

I just thought that doing this I would either like it or not like it. Its frustrating that I more or less come way with a feeling of indifference from it.
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Re: Reflections from a straight guy who bottommed

Unread postby Marmaduke » 14 March 2020, 15:44

You’re nothing if not committed to the narrative. I’ll commend you for that.
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Re: Reflections from a straight guy who bottommed

Unread postby StraightGuy28 » 14 March 2020, 15:48

I just thought this would be a forum where I could discuss my situation and my reactions to it. Sadly it is not.
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Re: Reflections from a straight guy who bottommed

Unread postby René » 14 March 2020, 16:02

Is it possible?
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Re: Reflections from a straight guy who bottommed

Unread postby Marmaduke » 14 March 2020, 16:04

And you’re certain you weren’t smoking drugs whilst watching porn before falling asleep watching Desperate Housewives?
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Re: Reflections from a straight guy who bottommed

Unread postby Magic J » 14 March 2020, 20:04

Marmaduke wrote:She was next door, engaged in some similarly altruistic scissoring with the lesbians of the cul-de-sac.

Every lesbian I've asked regards scissoring as some kind of gag sex position, tried once and then never again.

But this is a foreign world to me. Maybe they were messing. :P
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Re: Reflections from a straight guy who bottommed

Unread postby Derek » 14 March 2020, 20:05

This is the story that will finally unite this country.
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Re: Reflections from a straight guy who bottommed

Unread postby Jzone » 14 March 2020, 20:43

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Re: Reflections from a straight guy who bottommed

Unread postby ceez » 14 March 2020, 20:59

There are some straight guys out there that like to be on the recieving end of anal sex, most of them use dildos or get their wife/gf to wear a strap-on, plus the guys that identify as straight that do gay porn. For some people sex is sex and is not used to define their sexuality.
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Re: Reflections from a straight guy who bottommed

Unread postby StraightGuy28 » 14 March 2020, 22:20

ceez wrote:There are some straight guys out there that like to be on the recieving end of anal sex, most of them use dildos or get their wife/gf to wear a strap-on, plus the guys that identify as straight that do gay porn. For some people sex is sex and is not used to define their sexuality.


Thanks. I had hoped to have an open and honest discussion about this here to get advice from a gay mans perspective about this. Unfortunately I have realized this isnt the place to have that discussion as other posters ridicule me and a administrator here thumbs up their ridicule.
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Re: Reflections from a straight guy who bottommed

Unread postby Marmaduke » 14 March 2020, 22:43

Why do you keep saying you were hoping to get advice? You didn’t ask for advice. You told a story, you drew your own conclusions and you gave us advice. What advice were you hoping to get?

What you wanted was to talk about a gangbang. You wanted to live out a fantasy in some small way and try and revel a little in the character you portrayed yourself as. I get why. Please try and remember you’re visiting us. We would all appreciate being paid the small courtesy of you not trying to sell us on this being anything other than what it is. If you’d like me to pull apart what you’ve said, I will. But I don’t want to. Just stop repeating yourself. Especially when it’s bullshit you’re repeating.
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