What are you thinking at the moment?

Is there an app where you just meet up to cuddle and nothing else? Asking for a friend.

In a TL;DR type of mood. Can’t really focus on anything today. Voices be too loud today. At least I’m ok atm.

Derek wrote:You don't want to spoon-feed me Häagen-Dazs and play my belly like a bongo? Fine, I won't let your fatphobia get in the way of my happiness.

Do you mind if I poke and prod you with a stick, taunting you, while you lay helplessly in a beanbag of your own fat?

My mom turned 60 today and it’s so sad. Her life is a mess; poor decisions on top of poor decisions. It’s so frustrating because I try and hint at what she can do to improve her situation, but she doesn’t get the hints and blames circumstances.

Now my grandmother is basically sending her money… and I’m really upset that she’s accepting it. My grandmother and grandfather had to sell their house the other year and downsize to an apartment in an older-person building, so they’d have more liquidity to live on. This was a house they’d had since the 80s, which they’d made their own and settled into over the decades. My grandfather literally renovated every inch of it at least once if not twice over. There’s built-in furniture that he made, modifying pieces from the 50s and 60s which my grandmother — who has excellent mid-century modern taste — had been acquiring over the years. Worst of all, most of my happiest childhood memories happened at that house.

Ugh. It’d be less bad if the money were going to getting her into a better situation, like a specific amount of money for her to move to a better economic area closer to family.

But it’s not, it’s just going to service her insane debts accrued from years and years of consumer gluttony — buying so many DVDs she has unopened duplicates and triplicates, buying dozens of stupid tchotchkes that probably cost $50 or so each, buying clothes to try on and then never returning them in time, buying so much shit she doesn’t fucking need it’s difficult to walk around.

Brenden wrote:My mom turned 60 today and it’s so sad. Her life is a mess; poor decisions on top of poor decisions. It’s so frustrating because I try and hint at what she can do to improve her situation, but she doesn’t get the hints and blames circumstances.

Now my grandmother is basically sending her money… and I’m really upset that she’s accepting it. My grandmother and grandfather had to sell their house the other year and downsize to an apartment in an older-person building, so they’d have more liquidity to live on. This was a house they’d had since the 80s, which they’d made their own and settled into over the decades. My grandfather literally renovated every inch of it at least once if not twice over. There’s built-in furniture that he made, modifying pieces from the 50s and 60s which my grandmother — who has excellent mid-century modern taste — had been acquiring over the years. Worst of all, most of my happiest childhood memories happened at that house.

Ugh. It’d be less bad if the money were going to getting her into a better situation, like a specific amount of money for her to move to a better economic area closer to family.

But it’s not, it’s just going to service her insane debts accrued from years and years of consumer gluttony — buying so many DVDs she has unopened duplicates and triplicates, buying dozens of stupid tchotchkes that probably cost $50 or so each, buying clothes to try on and then never returning them in time, buying so much shit she doesn’t fucking need it’s difficult to walk around.

Sounds like a hoarder situation. I could never watch an episode of hoarders without crying. My grandmother hoarded animals. Cat and dog shit all over her house. Even a few dead animals in the house my grandmother couldn’t find. It’s a mental thing like gambling and addiction. Not much advice I can give you besides trying to talk to your grandparents about the situation.

Happy eat your body weight in food day!

If one approves of suicide, would it be inconsistent to be against a person who travels back in time to kill himself as a child?