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Re: What put a frown on your face today?

Unread postby John27 » 26 June 2020, 08:10

Capt._Trips wrote:My dad is dying.


So sorry to hear this!
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Re: What put a frown on your face today?

Unread postby Severelius » 26 June 2020, 16:03

A gay guy I went to school with and have a crush on but who is engaged just found my account on one of the gay hookup services I occasionally use and.... yeah I'm severely tempted to just purge literally everything off of any of those sites/apps and live as a celibate monk now to avoid that ever happening again.
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Re: What put a frown on your face today?

Unread postby ThatNomad » 26 June 2020, 16:08

Severelius wrote:A gay guy I went to school with and have a crush on but who is engaged just found my account on one of the gay hookup services I occasionally use and.... yeah I'm severely tempted to just purge literally everything off of any of those sites/apps and live as a celibate monk now to avoid that ever happening again.


Yikes... I really don't blame you.
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Re: What put a frown on your face today?

Unread postby ThatNomad » 26 June 2020, 16:15

So, about a month ago my boyfriend asked me to return to work so he could have more free time to work on a remodel we are working on. He's the handy one, I most definitely am not. Before that I spent about seven months being the "house husband" doing all the cooking, cleaning, stuff like that. I loved it, because it made me feel good to take care of the man I love.

When we decided to swap, and me go back to work he told me, without my even asking, that he would be taking care of all that stuff. So far, that has not been the case. Every morning he goes outside to start working on stuff, leaving me to finish my three hours of training for the new class and then get off to make my own food. I've also been doing all the dishes, and vacuuming.

Today was the first day of me actually having to take calls, something I was exceedingly anxious about, I'm talking about damn near being in tears, because I have an anxiety disorder and don't deal with stuff like phone based customer service well until I get really comfortable with the systems. He'd told me also, that since he'd done the same program I was starting in he'd be here to help if I needed it. Once again, this morning, he gets up and goes straight outside. Then, when I brought up food he told me what he had planned, but never came back inside to work on it. By the time I got off I just did it myself, even though I was emotionally drained from the near constant state of anxiety I had been in while on the phones.

So yeah, that's why I frowned today, and why I'm sitting here bitching about it on a forum, even though I know that's not the answer. Haha. Guess it's time to have a serious heart to heart. Ugh.
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Re: What put a frown on your face today?

Unread postby Severelius » 26 June 2020, 16:26

ThatNomad wrote:
Severelius wrote:A gay guy I went to school with and have a crush on but who is engaged just found my account on one of the gay hookup services I occasionally use and.... yeah I'm severely tempted to just purge literally everything off of any of those sites/apps and live as a celibate monk now to avoid that ever happening again.


Yikes... I really don't blame you.

It's just made any interaction I have with him very awkward now I know he's seen me with a dick in my mouth.
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Re: What put a frown on your face today?

Unread postby Brenden » 26 June 2020, 17:02

Severelius wrote:
ThatNomad wrote:
Severelius wrote:A gay guy I went to school with and have a crush on but who is engaged just found my account on one of the gay hookup services I occasionally use and.... yeah I'm severely tempted to just purge literally everything off of any of those sites/apps and live as a celibate monk now to avoid that ever happening again.


Yikes... I really don't blame you.

It's just made any interaction I have with him very awkward now I know he's seen me with a dick in my mouth.

Why do you have such a pic public? :blargh:
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Re: What put a frown on your face today?

Unread postby Severelius » 26 June 2020, 17:06

Brenden wrote:
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ThatNomad wrote:
Severelius wrote:A gay guy I went to school with and have a crush on but who is engaged just found my account on one of the gay hookup services I occasionally use and.... yeah I'm severely tempted to just purge literally everything off of any of those sites/apps and live as a celibate monk now to avoid that ever happening again.


Yikes... I really don't blame you.

It's just made any interaction I have with him very awkward now I know he's seen me with a dick in my mouth.

Why do you have such a pic public? :blargh:

Because I made the account when extremely horny and promptly basically forgot the account even existed until I was reminded of it.

Rest assured the first thing I did was make that picture VERY private.
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Re: What put a frown on your face today?

Unread postby Severelius » 26 June 2020, 20:54

So after a gap in conversation after he revealed that he'd found my profile he's now just asked me if I'm good at sucking cock... I both really like and also really hate where my mind is telling me this might be going.
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Re: What put a frown on your face today?

Unread postby Magic J » 26 June 2020, 21:01

In the immortal words of our forefathers, "suck his dick, see what happens".
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Re: What put a frown on your face today?

Unread postby ThatNomad » 26 June 2020, 21:24

Guess it will depend on where you are okay with it going. You said he was engaged. Is that a line you are willing to cross? If so, I think it's pretty clear where it will go. If not, perhaps it will go nowhere.
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Re: What put a frown on your face today?

Unread postby poolerboy0077 » 26 June 2020, 21:26

Magic J wrote:In the immortal words of our forefathers, "suck his dick, see what happens".

“Fellate his phallus; observe what may transpire.” —Abraham Lincoln
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Re: What put a frown on your face today?

Unread postby ThatNomad » 26 June 2020, 21:27

poolerboy0077 wrote:
Magic J wrote:In the immortal words of our forefathers, "suck his dick, see what happens".

“Fellate his phallus; observe what may transpire.” —Abraham Lincoln



OMFG I literally almost spit tea everywhere. You just can't do that to people! At least give us a warning! :rofl: :rofl: :rofl:
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Re: What put a frown on your face today?

Unread postby Severelius » 26 June 2020, 21:32

ThatNomad wrote:Guess it will depend on where you are okay with it going. You said he was engaged. Is that a line you are willing to cross? If so, I think it's pretty clear where it will go. If not, perhaps it will go nowhere.

Well I know he's on Grindr, I know his fiancé is also on Grindr, they're both listed on Grindr as being tops, and now I know he's on other hookup sites as well so while I haven't asked I'm kind of assuming their relationship is not entirely monogamous.

All I know is I do have a crush on him, have for a fair while, but I'm not gonna be the one to try and push any kind of scenario going forward. If he raises the possibility of this going into 'me on my knees' territory, however, I'm pretty sure I know what my answer will be.
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Re: What put a frown on your face today?

Unread postby ThatNomad » 26 June 2020, 21:33

Haha, understood, sir.
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Re: What put a frown on your face today?

Unread postby poolerboy0077 » 26 June 2020, 22:29

Capt._Trips wrote:My dad is dying. It's very soon. Over this past week it's like he's went so down hill.

That’s horrible. I’m so sorry to hear that. :sadblue:
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Re: What put a frown on your face today?

Unread postby Capt._Trips » 27 June 2020, 01:56

He's in the ICU now. They are allowing us to visit him but only 3 people at a time. And my mom isn't leaving. They're giving him morphine to help him sleep. But Everytime a doctor or nurse comes in they wait for one of us to leave.
They don't expect him to make it through the night. but as much as I've seen him fight he may make it another day or two just to say fuck you to death.
He's such a good guy. He may be homophobic but he's the greatest dad I could've ever asked for. And I wouldn't ask for anything else.
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Re: What put a frown on your face today?

Unread postby ThatNomad » 27 June 2020, 01:57

We are here for you, in whatever we can be, Cap! I'm so sorry you are having to go through this right now.
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Re: What put a frown on your face today?

Unread postby rogonandi » 28 June 2020, 08:55

I accidentally took a hotel lockout key with me home. I told the acting manager about it when I found out and he did tell me it was fine and I can bring it back when I come in tomorrow.

I suppose it’s okay because it isn’t a security risk. All the key can do is lock me out of rooms. :facepalm2:
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Re: What put a frown on your face today?

Unread postby Capt._Trips » 29 June 2020, 00:15

He passed early Saturday morning in his sleep.
He wanted to be cremated and we are having a "veiwing" on Monday of next week. It's been really hard on my mom and my family that was living with him.
I knew when I seen him on Father's day it wouldn't be long. Just wish it was a little longer. He fought like hell for a long time. But hopefully he's getting some peace now.
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Re: What put a frown on your face today?

Unread postby Brenden » 29 June 2020, 13:03

Capt._Trips wrote:He passed early Saturday morning in his sleep.
He wanted to be cremated and we are having a "veiwing" on Monday of next week. It's been really hard on my mom and my family that was living with him.
I knew when I seen him on Father's day it wouldn't be long. Just wish it was a little longer. He fought like hell for a long time. But hopefully he's getting some peace now.

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