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Re: Why did it take me so long to understand that I am gay?

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Re: Why did it take me so long to understand that I am gay?

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Re: Why did it take me so long to understand that I am gay?

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Re: Why did it take me so long to understand that I am gay?

Unread postby Jryski » 22 July 2019, 06:04

Being molested is irrelevant in terms of celibacy so you were celibate till the age of 14. I never said anything about you being molested. Having sex with people including your ex fiance isn't celibacy.
It's not a low blow. It's called being blunt cuz you were being obnoxious and rude. If you think that's a low blow then you haven't seen anything yet.
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Re: Why did it take me so long to understand that I am gay?

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Re: Why did it take me so long to understand that I am gay?

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Re: Why did it take me so long to understand that I am gay?

Unread postby cougar4327 » 23 July 2019, 14:25

All I can say is: Gay sex is the best. Weare forunate we are Gay, whenever we acknowledge being Gay
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Re: Why did it take me so long to understand that I am gay?

Unread postby poolerboy0077 » 23 July 2019, 17:27

Derek wrote:
Iamjava wrote:If you had kids, it meant that you orgasmed. I never orgasmed to a woman. That's how I know I'm gay.

Have you tried?

I also wouldn’t say that an orgasm in itself is an indication of sexual orientation. One can successfully “perform” on the opposite sex and not be bi or straight.
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Re: Why did it take me so long to understand that I am gay?

Unread postby Iamjava » 23 July 2019, 17:52

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Re: Why did it take me so long to understand that I am gay?

Unread postby poolerboy0077 » 23 July 2019, 21:04

Iamjava wrote:
poolerboy0077 wrote:
Derek wrote:
Iamjava wrote:If you had kids, it meant that you orgasmed. I never orgasmed to a woman. That's how I know I'm gay.

Have you tried?

I also wouldn’t say that an orgasm in itself is an indication of sexual orientation. One can successfully “perform” on the opposite sex and not be bi or straight.

For 60 years??

I know closeted Republicans who’ve been nutting in their wives for much longer.
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Re: Why did it take me so long to understand that I am gay?

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Re: Why did it take me so long to understand that I am gay?

Unread postby cougar4327 » 23 July 2019, 23:09

@Iam Java: I had a huge laugh over your comments. By the way, your comment about better for me to be bi instead of gay--I can answer in this fashion: being bi is like being in the middle of the road and as someone from Texas once said, " the only two things in the middle of the road are dead armadillos and yellow lines." Love you bro.
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Re: Why did it take me so long to understand that I am gay?

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Re: Why did it take me so long to understand that I am gay?

Unread postby jimbo_xix » 24 July 2019, 06:39

I don't believe anyone is born gay or straight. I think we're all born with a bisexual potential. Then depending upon our own natural proclivities and our experiences with both males and females as children, we gravitate to either males or females. Some of the lucky ones stay in the middle and remain bisexual. Bottom line, I reject the concept that we're born "that way". We subconsciously 'choose' the sexuality which best suits us. Sexuality is dynamic and fluid as your example clearly shows.
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Re: Why did it take me so long to understand that I am gay?

Unread postby Jryski » 24 July 2019, 08:44

jimbo_xix wrote:I don't believe anyone is born gay or straight. I think we're all born with a bisexual potential.
Current scientific research and studies suggests otherwise.
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Re: Why did it take me so long to understand that I am gay?

Unread postby Eryx » 24 July 2019, 11:41

Yeah, that's bullshit...
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Re: Why did it take me so long to understand that I am gay?

Unread postby cougar4327 » 24 July 2019, 13:12

Agree with jimbo: "bottom line, I reject the concept that we're born "that way". We subconsciously 'choose' the sexuality which best suits us. Sexuality is dynamic and fluid as your example clearly shows"
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Re: Why did it take me so long to understand that I am gay?

Unread postby Eryx » 24 July 2019, 13:30

Well, you're both wrong. I didn't choose anything. Maybe that's how it worked out for you guys, but the first lesson any gay person should ideally know is that everyone is different and goes through different things and feelings. If you guys feel like you've made a conscious choice to be gay or bisexual, or that something in your lives caused things to change in such ways, that's great for you, those experiences only go as far as your own brains.

I didn't have any weird experiences while I was a child and I had as many guy friends as girl friends, a functioning family with grandparents, loving (and married) parents and a normal childhood with videogames and trivial interests. Nothing in my early years made me choose to like boys, I have always liked them for as long as I have memories and I was never, ever, even once interested in a girl or a girl's body.

That's me and I think it's quite arrogant for a GAY man, who should understand people aren't always the same in regards to sexuality, to tell me that I'm wrong, even though I'm the one who lived my life and thought my thoughts.
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Re: Why did it take me so long to understand that I am gay?

Unread postby Iamjava » 24 July 2019, 14:24

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