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Unread postby Bunjimun » 14 June 2019, 20:12

Hi folks, I'm Ben, always been bi curious, to be honest I've been desparate to spend some time with a guy since I went to a gay bar with friends in college 20yrs ago and spent the evening passionately kissing a guy, I know I'm not just gay as I love women but I'm very attracted to guys too, I want too explore this more but I don't want to be out, how do I find guys without being out? I really want to explore this side of me but scared of being spotted on the various apps that are available

Any advice appreciated

Love Ben
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Unread postby Eryx » 14 June 2019, 20:33

You don't have to use a picture to participate in the apps, you can show yourself only to those you want. Also, if the guy is there it means he's looking for the same thing as you, and gay guys don't tend to share these kinds of things will other people, as in a silent pact. Besides, if you find someone you already know, the whole getting-to-know-him part may be skipped, which makes things easier. :)
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Re: Hi, need advice

Unread postby GaySpacePirateKing » 14 June 2019, 21:06

Bunjimun wrote:I'm very attracted to guys too, I want too explore this more but I don't want to be out, how do I find guys without being out? I really want to explore this side of me but scared of being spotted on the various apps that are available.


Saunas :lol:

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Re: Hi, need advice

Unread postby Jryski » 16 June 2019, 01:30

Well you don't get to say Saunas because you. Jkjk Gotcha! Bet you thought we gonna go for round 2. XD
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Unread postby Bender » 16 June 2019, 07:00

Sup
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Re: Hi, need advice

Unread postby mxguy01 » 21 June 2019, 01:33

Um, the obvious answer seems to be - visit a gay bar again.
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