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I am a 35 year old virgin.

Unread postby NY.P » 19 August 2021, 23:10

Hi guys.... just joined and in desperate need of some Friends.
I was raised in a conservative Christian home with very strict moral rules which prevented me from any relationship whatsoever. I grew up knowing very well that I had some attractions towards guys but never had the guts to pursue it. Moreover in my part of the world, it is a crime to be gay and punishable by law.
I sometimes hated myself for these feelings and even question God as to why I don't feel same attraction towards women instead. I have fasted and prayed for God to change me but nothing so far. (I know this might resonate with most of us)

I am 35 now and being the oldest son to my parents, they have started asking for me to bring my girlfriend home. I try to change the topic anytime it comes up..but how long can I keep it up? Disappointing my parents is something I just can do.
I sometimes don't even know if I am gay cause like I mention in my topic, I am still a virgin at 35.
HELP!!!!!
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Re: I am a 35 year old virgin.

Unread postby TopRocky29 » 21 August 2021, 14:32

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Re: I am a 35 year old virgin.

Unread postby Marmaduke » 21 August 2021, 14:36

What’s a structured d/s life? What is the choice between d and s?
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Re: I am a 35 year old virgin.

Unread postby Glunney » 23 August 2021, 16:48

Hi I'm Gareth I'm a farming lad from fermanagh,5.8 and chunky dark black hair I'm looking for a first time experience with a man I'm in a relationship with a woman but I feel that I'm just suppressing my urges, I prefer to text or WhatsApp
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Re: I am a 35 year old virgin.

Unread postby pozboro » 23 August 2021, 16:59

NY.P wrote:HELP!!!!!


Yes, a number of us have backgrounds that allow us to relate, on some level, to what you've shared. What kind of help do you seek? I'm not sure how best to advise you since I don't know what your hopes are and what you are willing to risk though I get you feel it's important to live up to your parents' expectations.

What options for your future have you considered and which have you decided you don't want to pursue?

Either way, I do wish you luck going forward. It's your life, and best as you can, you need to live it in a way that makes you happy and fulfilled. Good luck! :)
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Re: I am a 35 year old virgin.

Unread postby NY.P » 26 August 2021, 21:37

Thank you very much @pozboro. I truly appreciate your thoughts.
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