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Unread postby Curious2try » 1 November 2018, 20:12

Hello everyone,
I'm a 30 year old male. I consider myself straight like I check out girls had a girlfriend watch straight porn. For the longest time though I've always had "gay thoughts" for as long as I can remember. I don't check out guys in public, but when I watch porn I do sometimes pay a little more attention to the guy I started watching shemale porn then to gay porn which dose get me off.
To me it's only a physical attraction to men no Romance no BS just physical.
Any advice, maybe I'm bi or just curious?
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Re: Need advice

Unread postby Tommiebee » 2 November 2018, 02:11

Hi Curious! Welcome to the Forum.
I'm not offering advice, and I think people take their own paths in life, along the way interests may change, appetites may change, and I personally don't care to get hung up on labels.
It's not unusual for someone who has repressed feelings to have those surface later in life - at least that was my experience. I think it might help you to explore your feelings, maybe even explore your desires.
How would you know if you like peanut butter if you've never tasted peanut butter?
Just my thoughts.
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Re: Need advice

Unread postby Eryx » 7 November 2018, 10:45

What is that link on your post, sunvizion?

@Curious2try, probably bisexual, watch some gay porn and see how you like it. If you feel uneasy you can start with guys kissing or whatever. If that gets you going then you probably like both, which is completely fine.

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Re: Need advice

Unread postby rogonandi » 7 November 2018, 11:27

Just ease yourself into it bit by bit, and remember there isn’t anything to be ashamed of.
People love to follow fools; they don't feel so alone then.

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Re: Need advice

Unread postby Nutbuttersauce » 18 November 2018, 16:52

I to found myself in your position. And trying to rationalize it in your mind can be numbing. Everyone around me is anti gay. The job I do is anti gay yet I do have a gay side and I know it. Be true to yourself don't let people tell you different. In the long run you will be much happier. Oh and welcome glad you are here
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