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Unread postby Unknown1740 » 25 November 2019, 03:01

I am a closeted 25 year old gay male. I have been going to this drive thru convenience store for about a year and a half. There is this guy that works 2nd shift and he is really nice and cute. About a week ago he complimented my jacket and said it was a good color on me. I have gotten compliments from straight men before, but never like this. I felt like he was flirting with me. I kept thinking to myself "Is he gay and did he just flirt with me?" He is not from this country, so I don't know if realized how his choice of words came off to me. I figured I would try to test him a little bit. Tonight, I went through the drive thru again, butbthis time with my pants unzipped. I unzipped my pants to show off my silky purple boxer briefs and watched him to see if he kept looking. I didn't notice him look, so I went a step further. I went to put my wallet back in my pocket while he was talking to me and I raised up out of my seat and turned my front towards him, where he definitely could not notice. But, when I did that I didn't have sight of his eyes, because they were blocked by part of my car. He never said anything. Not even a "hey, your fly is open". What do you think of the situation? Is there any other subtle things I can do to find out if he is gay and/or interested in me? I don't want to just come out and ask him, just incase he isn't.
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Unread postby Eryx » 25 November 2019, 04:40

I think he was just complimenting your jacket, and it would probably be healthy for you to come out, because you're making things up in your head and that can't be sustainable...
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Unread postby kenzie_matt » 25 November 2019, 12:31

What exactly are you hoping for? If just a hookup, you're on the right path. Could probably go commando next time or maybe have it hanging out. I've never been to the States, but I'm pretty sure that would be illegal so I wouldn't recommend that course of action.
As Eryx said, rather come out if you want to pursue something. In my experience, even a straight guy would look - even if only briefly - if somebody's underwear was showing or even his dick. Doesn't mean that they're gay, would probably just wonder why they can see your junk.

Just my two cents.
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