Struggeling with sexuality by Jorn Kooij

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Struggeling with sexuality by Jorn Kooij

Unread postby Jurnasol » 16 December 2021, 13:44

Hi Guys,

My name is Jorn Kooij and I found out that I am gay sexual a couple years ago. I started to notice that was getting excited whenever I one my friends, called Scott Wever, half naked surfing. At first I was angry. I was getting a boner when just chilling with my friends on the beach and I did not understood why. I thought i liked females. Now I understand that I am full blow homo sexual and starting to accept. But i a bit hesitant to tell my friends. They all are very cool and drink alot of beers all the time. Do you guys have any tips for me?

Thank you! :heart:

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Re: Struggeling with sexuality by Jorn Kooij

Unread postby Eryx » 16 December 2021, 16:16

Wear a condom, never get into relationships out of loneliness, don't do drugs just because "everyone does it," take it slow if you want to be penetrated (practice with yourself first, and be communicative with your partners) and just have fun!

Being gay is not that different from being straight, except that you'll have to deal with men. And they aren't that different from straight guys either :P

If you think your friends are cool about it, then you should definitely talk to them, it's easier when we can be ourselves with the people we like being around.
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Re: Struggeling with sexuality by Jorn Kooij

Unread postby pozzie » 16 December 2021, 22:15

Welcome to the forum.

Maybe start by not posting your friend's name(s) in a relatively public setting like this? While you make no claims about his sexuality, he might not appreciate being mentioned in this way.

Next, make some gay friends you can hang out with - that's probably the most important step into figuring things out.
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