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Adding another person for sex

Unread postby LOUSCH » 20 April 2022, 15:02

With my boyfriend we are 4 years together and since a couple of months now we both had this fantasy to invite a 3rd person
My boyfriend is top , i am bottom and we both wanted another top that i will suck him while my boyfriend is watching
3 weeks ago we decided to do it , so i went on grindr i found someone and he came by
For me it was amazing but my boyfriend couldn't get a hard on ... later that day he was getting hard thinking of what happened
What does this mean ? He likes the idea but in reality he doesn't feel comfortable?

And what happens now that i want to do it again?
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Re: Adding another person for sex

Unread postby rogonandi » 20 April 2022, 16:48

It’s nerves. When you do something new your brain runs a mile a minute. :)
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Re: Adding another person for sex

Unread postby weedan » 24 April 2022, 22:56

pretty much as Rogonandi said its most likely nerves. Ask if he wants to do it again and if not don't push it.
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