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Unread postby Edt2001 » 31 August 2020, 12:43

I really like this guy and this guy really likes me. I want to be with him and he wanted to be with me. However when things got to real he made a u turn and said our distance is to far and he is worried about what his family will think. I obviously understand this I’m just upset that he liked me first got me to like him and then back tracked. He always says he doesn’t want to be with me as he doesn’t want to hurt me in the future. Do you think I should try and pursue this relationship or just move on with my life? I’ve never found anyone like him before and I think I love him
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Re: Advice for gay relationship

Unread postby dragonfire » 31 August 2020, 13:27

Maybe he’s scared. You don’t have to make an either or decision right now. Maybe see how things go. Communication is key to any kind of relationship.
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Re: Advice for gay relationship

Unread postby Edt2001 » 31 August 2020, 13:35

He has made the decision to end it :( and is ignoring my texts so I obvs stopped messaging
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Unread postby Eos » 31 August 2020, 14:09

Well it's not your fault, he tried to build something he wasn't ready to do. Good luck moving with your life.
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Re: Advice for gay relationship

Unread postby MichaelWSF » 28 September 2020, 14:49

Move on with your life! My foolish heart has led me astray and caused me confusion several times.
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Re: Advice for gay relationship

Unread postby Eryx » 28 September 2020, 23:18

Michael, be sure to check the dates of the last contributions before commenting yourself. Sometimes the thread is too old. It's been two months since OP said the guy ghosted him, so he's probably moved on from the story by now.
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Re: Advice for gay relationship

Unread postby René » Yesterday, 01:18

Eryx wrote:Michael, be sure to check the dates of the last contributions before commenting yourself. Sometimes the thread is too old. It's been two months since OP said the guy ghosted him, so he's probably moved on from the story by now.

Sorry to nitpick, but hasn't it been more like 4 weeks? What with August coming right before September and everything :D
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Unread postby Eryx » Yesterday, 03:02

Oops yeah sorry
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