Completley head over heels with my best mate!

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Completley head over heels with my best mate!

Unread postby 02cscott » 25 July 2019, 14:58

I'm not nescessarily looking for advice, just somewhere to vent!

I am completely head ober heals in love with my best mate and it's killing me! He is a straight male and nothing like that will ever happen but i'm still in love with him. I can never tell him because I am not going to run the risk of ruining the friendship as that is far more important to me than how I feel.

We meet up every week at least twice and more often than not we have a few drinks at home, play games, have bbqs and he'll crash over. We are so compatible and have so much in common I think its just that I feel like if I found a bf it would be one exactly like him. We'll have pride nights where we drink cocktails, have flags up etc even have jokes about shagging and just having a right laugh but that's all it will ever be. I know i'll get over it and know that I can't be the only one who has had this.

Like I said, just a vent. :)
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Re: Completley head over heels with my best mate!

Unread postby Jryski » 25 July 2019, 23:32

Awww that's cute! :3
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Re: Completley head over heels with my best mate!

Unread postby Eryx » 26 July 2019, 00:12

I told my best friend that I had a crush on him when we were teenagers and he was totally fine with it, but I used past tense so I guess that's a little less intimidating. Shit happens, I guess, I'm sorry! You should try finding people who can reciprocate though, so that this doesn't make you crazy in the long run.

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