Crisis of 6 years of relationship

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Re: Crisis of 6 years of relationship

Unread postby ualerroix » 9 November 2020, 15:01

René wrote::runaway:

Where are you finding these people?

Wish i knew.
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Re: Crisis of 6 years of relationship

Unread postby Eos » 9 November 2020, 21:26

Fuck how can one be so unlucky...
You are not the reason people beat you. You know why ? Because no one has the right to beat anyone. Only assholes or cowards use violence.
Poor son as well...
If it's been only 6 months I would suggest to leave before it leaves an emotional mark on yourself, or simply kills you.
Is there something that is in common with your other ex (regarding how you met them) ?
The place maybe ?

Good luck anyway.
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Re: Crisis of 6 years of relationship

Unread postby ualerroix » 9 November 2020, 22:16

Eos wrote:Is there something that is in common with your other ex (regarding how you met them) ?
The place maybe ?

Good luck anyway.

Thank you :heart:
Not that much in common except for age (few years older than me, not critically), both has more income, and both are in sports. Maybe both did not see a personality in me, since we mostly had sex.
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Re: Crisis of 6 years of relationship

Unread postby Eos » 10 November 2020, 06:33

Well maybe take more time before having sex ? To make sure he is the right one. You need to find someone that had rather talk issues rather than fight over them.
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Re: Crisis of 6 years of relationship

Unread postby ualerroix » 10 November 2020, 07:44

Eos wrote:Well maybe take more time before having sex ? To make sure he is the right one. You need to find someone that had rather talk issues rather than fight over them.

To be honest i start to believe that i can give only sex. I have no friends, im in the new city, i have no job, total zero. Not sure my personality could be interesting. I realize all is pointless.
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Re: Crisis of 6 years of relationship

Unread postby Eos » 11 November 2020, 11:43

Well maybe work on yourself before you start to look for someone to be with.
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Re: Crisis of 6 years of relationship

Unread postby Jryski » 20 November 2020, 14:20

Holy shit. I’m sorry but your boyfriend is neurotic and possibly a sociopath. The way you talk sounds just like a abuse victim. Don’t diminish what he has done. You’re not at fault because all the faults are his. He is a bad person and you need to work on getting your own place and away from him. Go to the polizei or politsiya if you have to. For the mean time, trust in how you feel. There is a reason why you feel bad and know that you’re feeling bad because of him. Every time he gets mad, every time you’re feeling scared, every time he says something is your fault, it’s all his fault. He isn’t mentally stable and he gets excited when he treats you bad. He will lie to you and purposely trick you into believing that you’re losing your mind and that you’re a total mess. I can only see his bad behaviors escalating with time. Try your very best to remind yourself that it’s not you. You’re feeling this way because of him.
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