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Dating someone you do business with.

Unread postby Adam. Bomb » 12 December 2018, 14:23

Hi I am a 38-year-old bI male. My question is about talking to A female but Would like to have input from as many people as I can.
Without making this too long I have a nice young lady who comes in and makes deliveries to my company. I find her very attractive and would love to ask her on a date. But I’m not sure how to go about it. I feel she is comfortable around me and we do have some basic Conversation about our day is and how her weekend went the weather typical stuff. She always smiles and is very giggly. I would love to ask her out but I’m concerned if he says no or becomes uncomfortable about making deliver To me. The one thing I don’t want to do is make her uncomfortable to come here. What do you guys think hope I explained it well.
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Re: Dating someone you do business with.

Unread postby Eryx » 12 December 2018, 15:50

"Hey, I don't want to make anything awkward, so if you're not into it I totally understand and won't be weird about it, but I think you're really pretty and pleasant, I'd love to take you out if you'll let me. What do you say?"
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Re: Dating someone you do business with.

Unread postby PopTart » 12 December 2018, 16:11

Yep, what Eryx said, but in your own words! Just put it delicately, people can be weird nowadays, I was listening to a radio show the other day in which several women catergorised being asked out by someone at work as sexual harrasment :confused: :shrug:

I think so long as you couch your request in a respectful manner, she wont be offended.
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Re: Dating someone you do business with.

Unread postby Szymonnikt » 12 December 2018, 16:14

Adam. Bomb wrote:Hi I am a 38-year-old bI male. My question is about talking to A female but Would like to have input from as many people as I can.
Without making this too long I have a nice young lady who comes in and makes deliveries to my company. I find her very attractive and would love to ask her on a date. But I’m not sure how to go about it. I feel she is comfortable around me and we do have some basic Conversation about our day is and how her weekend went the weather typical stuff. She always smiles and is very giggly. I would love to ask her out but I’m concerned if he says no or becomes uncomfortable about making deliver to me. The one thing I don’t want to do is make her uncomfortable to come here. What do you guys think hope I explained it well.

Ask her out and accept her decision. Just don't make it like you love her and will marry her on the spot. Make it naturally. And don't react to much on rejection. If she chooses to not going to you anymore that her choice. She is an adult you are too. You can manage it you both. At least you won't regret you've never done it.
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Re: Dating someone you do business with.

Unread postby Adam. Bomb » 13 December 2018, 15:43

Thanks everybody for replying I did ask she has a boyfriend but she was completely cool about it and even stayed a little longer than normal and we talked today. But thanks for the help.
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Unread postby Szymonnikt » 13 December 2018, 15:52

Adam. Bomb wrote:Thanks everybody for replying I did ask she has a boyfriend but she was completely cool about it and even stayed a little longer than normal and we talked today. But thanks for the help.

Oh sorry for that. It will be ok :hug:

But tell me How you feel about it? Do you regret it?
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Re: Dating someone you do business with.

Unread postby mxguy01 » 13 December 2018, 21:58

Adam. Bomb wrote:Thanks everybody for replying I did ask she has a boyfriend but she was completely cool about it and even stayed a little longer than normal and we talked today. But thanks for the help.


Ok. Your bi and she has a boyfriend. I'm failing to see the problem with such a blatantly big opportunity in front of you!
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Re: Dating someone you do business with.

Unread postby BlackBoi666 » 13 December 2018, 23:57

women suck. most only date for money. you can date who ya want, but that's just my advice.
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Re: Dating someone you do business with.

Unread postby Szymonnikt » 14 December 2018, 00:02

BlackBoi666 wrote:women suck. most only date for money. you can date who ya want, but that's just my advice.

Let's generalize about woman. Let's generalize about them. Let's take one bad thing about one woman
And then apply it to all of them
Let's conflate all the girls
Let's generalize about women!
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Re: Dating someone you do business with.

Unread postby mxguy01 » 14 December 2018, 03:45

Ok. Well women don't suck that good really. Gay guys give way better head.
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Re: Dating someone you do business with.

Unread postby Adam. Bomb » 14 December 2018, 14:01

Szymonnikt wrote:
Adam. Bomb wrote:Thanks everybody for replying I did ask she has a boyfriend but she was completely cool about it and even stayed a little longer than normal and we talked today. But thanks for the help.

Oh sorry for that. It will be ok :hug:

But tell me How you feel about it? Do you regret it?


Well surprisingly I feel Excellent about it. Soon as she answered. It was a huge weight lifted I don’t even really feel that it was bad answer for me.
Also I kind a got the feeling that maybe she was relieved too. Maybe she picked up on The tension I had when she came in. But she seemed to open up a little bit after I asked. I’m just glad she’s not uncomfortable she actually seems a little happy.
Thanks for asking I appreciate it.
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Re: Dating someone you do business with.

Unread postby Szymonnikt » 14 December 2018, 14:05

Adam. Bomb wrote:
Szymonnikt wrote:
Adam. Bomb wrote:Thanks everybody for replying I did ask she has a boyfriend but she was completely cool about it and even stayed a little longer than normal and we talked today. But thanks for the help.

Oh sorry for that. It will be ok :hug:

But tell me How you feel about it? Do you regret it?


Well surprisingly I feel Excellent about it. Soon as she answered. It was a huge weight lifted I don’t even really feel that it was bad answer for me.
Also I kind a got the feeling that maybe she was relieved too. Maybe she picked up on The tension I had when she came in. But she seemed to open up a little bit after I asked. I’m just glad she’s not uncomfortable she actually seems a little happy.
Thanks for asking I appreciate it.

You see :thumbsupwink: good for you :D
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Re: Dating someone you do business with.

Unread postby Adam. Bomb » 14 December 2018, 14:06

mxguy01 wrote:
Adam. Bomb wrote:Thanks everybody for replying I did ask she has a boyfriend but she was completely cool about it and even stayed a little longer than normal and we talked today. But thanks for the help.


Ok. Your bi and she has a boyfriend. I'm failing to see the problem with such a blatantly big opportunity in front of you!


Maybe I’ll work into asking her if he’s bi but something tells me that’s not going to Happen
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Unread postby Szymonnikt » 14 December 2018, 14:08

Adam. Bomb wrote:
mxguy01 wrote:
Adam. Bomb wrote:Thanks everybody for replying I did ask she has a boyfriend but she was completely cool about it and even stayed a little longer than normal and we talked today. But thanks for the help.


Ok. Your bi and she has a boyfriend. I'm failing to see the problem with such a blatantly big opportunity in front of you!


Maybe I’ll work into asking her if he’s bi but something tells me that’s not going to Happen

Be careful about asking for threesomes :crazy: .
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Unread postby Adam. Bomb » 14 December 2018, 14:45

mxguy01 wrote:Ok. Well women don't suck that good really. Gay guys give way better head.


Definitely no expert on head. But most of the gay men I have no one have always given the best advice. And that’s why I posted this here.
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Re: Dating someone you do business with.

Unread postby Adam. Bomb » 14 December 2018, 15:18

Szymonnikt wrote:
Adam. Bomb wrote:
mxguy01 wrote:
Adam. Bomb wrote:Thanks everybody for replying I did ask she has a boyfriend but she was completely cool about it and even stayed a little longer than normal and we talked today. But thanks for the help.


Ok. Your bi and she has a boyfriend. I'm failing to see the problem with such a blatantly big opportunity in front of you!


Maybe I’ll work into asking her if he’s bi but something tells me that’s not going to Happen

Be careful about asking for threesomes :crazy: .

:devil: I meant that more as a joke I don’t think that ever happened
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Re: Dating someone you do business with.

Unread postby mxguy01 » 14 December 2018, 15:43

Adam. Bomb wrote:
Szymonnikt wrote:
Adam. Bomb wrote:
mxguy01 wrote:
Adam. Bomb wrote:Thanks everybody for replying I did ask she has a boyfriend but she was completely cool about it and even stayed a little longer than normal and we talked today. But thanks for the help.


Ok. Your bi and she has a boyfriend. I'm failing to see the problem with such a blatantly big opportunity in front of you!


Maybe I’ll work into asking her if he’s bi but something tells me that’s not going to Happen

Be careful about asking for threesomes :crazy: .

:devil: I meant that more as a joke I don’t think that ever happened


As did I. But on the other hand you never know. She may go home, tell her boyfriend only to have him confess that he is bi... Like you said, never going to happen, but then again my guess is that it happens from time to time. :devil:
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