Does he still have feelings?

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Does he still have feelings?

Unread postby 80sbaby » 22 June 2020, 14:34

We haven't been able to see each other in quarantined. Its been 3 months we text every day. He still texts the same way and everything. The only 2 things I noticed was that I tagged him on our first anniversary picture to celebrate our 1st anniversary but I noticed he didn't post anything about it. And then I noticed he stopped calling me "boo" and I asked him about it and he said he doesn't know why he hasn't and it wasn't intentional. He also told me not to visit him at work since he won't be able to interact with me as much/hangout at work (which is true)

So it got me thinking, is he pretending til we see each other to break up?? or am I just over thinking the situation?
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Re: Does he still have feelings?

Unread postby Eryx » 22 June 2020, 15:52

I feel like every time I travel or my boyfriend travels to some other place, initially (read: 1~9 days) I feel really bad about being away and I miss him all the time. But eventually, I kind of get into the new routine and it's not as bad anymore. I still miss him at this point and I still reach out to him because he's my best friend, but it doesn't feel as urgent and close as in the beginning, because we're physically away and that makes a difference.

When we do get back together, though, it's always better and more intense than a regular day. It's a great feeling and things kind of go back to normal effortlessly. I believe that could be the case for you, but you'll only know when you can finally meet.

How far away are you from each other? Are you in contact with anyone who might be at a group of risk? If not, maybe you could give it a few days and stay together somewhere. My grandmother lives with me and we're being serious about the quarantine, but my boyfriend lives 15 minutes away on foot and he even spent Mother's Day with his family, all precautions taken. He's spent most of this time living with us and helping me out with groceries and everything. What I mean with all of that is that quarantine is important, but we can take some steps to stay together with our loved ones if/when we feel lonely.
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Re: Does he still have feelings?

Unread postby 80sbaby » 22 June 2020, 17:35

I live about an hour and ten minutes away from him. And what do you mean by in contact with anyone who might be at a group of risk?
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Re: Does he still have feelings?

Unread postby René » 23 June 2020, 05:53

80sbaby wrote:And what do you mean by in contact with anyone who might be at a group of risk?

Like, if you spend any time near people who are more likely to catch or die from the virus, like elderly people or already sick people.
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Re: Does he still have feelings?

Unread postby 80sbaby » 23 June 2020, 15:38

Oh! Yeah, my niece who recently got diagnosed with a terminal disease.
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