Does he swing my way?

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Does he swing my way?

Unread postby asus013 » 17 March 2019, 18:14

Hello! New to the forum here :)
How do know if a guy swings your way? I don't really want to go on gay/bi sites to meet guys because I don't want my community, friends, family to know I am gay/bi. Where do you meet guys? I meet really nice cute guys all the time, but I don't know, i figure they are straight. I dont want to come out and ask, are you gay/bi. The rejection of that would be devastating/humiliating.
Any advice would be great!
Thanks!
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Re: Does he swing my way?

Unread postby Eryx » 19 March 2019, 00:03

There's no way to know unless you ask. There's no formula, no tips, no behaviors that will let you know what other men like. You just have to go with it. Some people do demonstrate they're attracted to us at some point, and you have to be able to notice those hints in order to pursue someone else.

As for rejection, it's normal, everyone goes through it, and it doesn't hurt as much as you think. Most people in a relationship were probably rejected way more than they hit gold.
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Re: Does he swing my way?

Unread postby trywait » 19 March 2019, 00:28

wasn't there like a meme that said something like opening up grindr and checking to see if that guy you've spotted is on there?
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Re: Does he swing my way?

Unread postby asus013 » 31 March 2019, 16:23

lol, good point
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