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Unread postby ualerroix » 7 May 2020, 00:01

Hey i have a question again.
Would you accept your partner if you'd know he was in escort in his past?
Would you do it if you'd find it out after some period of relationship?
Maybe you'd be glad about it because such people may be more experienced?
Or just indifferent?
Or it depends on consequences which follows being in escort (diseases, infections, behaviour, circle)?
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Re: Escort issues

Unread postby erti » 7 May 2020, 01:39

I wouldn't want to have sex right away with someone who was or is an escort unless they're getting seen for STD's every time they have sex with someone else but I wouldn't want to stay with them if they continued to have sex with people while in a relationship with me.
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Re: Escort issues

Unread postby betonhaus » 7 May 2020, 08:45

I think I'd want to talk to him about it at least. Mostly to ask if he stayed safe and tested, and what he wants in the switch to a relationship. After that? I don't really know. I'd imagine I'd be hurt if I thought or was led to believe he highly pure or something beforehand, and I'd question myself as to what I meant to him. I can only guess as to the reasons for choosing that way of life but only to the extent of limited options and poor choices.
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Re: Escort issues

Unread postby GearFetTwinkRomance » 8 May 2020, 05:11

ualerroix wrote:Hey i have a question again.
Would you accept your partner if you'd know he was in escort in his past?
Would you do it if you'd find it out after some period of relationship?
Maybe you'd be glad about it because such people may be more experienced?
Or just indifferent?
Or it depends on consequences which follows being in escort (diseases, infections, behaviour, circle)?



I guess it would depend on the person he is and the possibility, his interest in a long term relationship, and whether he was planning to keep that job while we would grow close or not, how close in what kind of a manner, too.
Of course I would like to know about their past. I can imagine of things he would not be easy to talk about, as long as one does not know the other close enough, but with the first 5 years growing close or falling in love even, that insecurity should pass. That is, how I could imagine it. I never have so far, so I don't know, what this is like.

Certainly it would be kind of awkward if he told me one day before we become engaged or something. It should be somewhat earlier, and yes, of course I would think it was in his interest to know his possible STD-status very well, before we came to anything more than to cuddle.

If they were the one cute Mr. Right kind of guy, I guess I wouldn't much care if his past was kind of rough. Very depending on the case and person, though.

He could have helped me out on a story I wrote about an escort who fell in love to one of his customers, I guess. Instead of having to make it all up, it could have given the whole thing an authentic touch.
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Re: Escort issues

Unread postby rxxli » 8 May 2020, 12:28

I really wouldn't mind at all. If this all happened in the past and they are done with it of course. As long as they have been tested for STDs and such after they stopped. The past is the past really. It's just a way to earn money... similar to any other job really.

I wouldn't however date somebody who is still actively an escort though. That's a bit too big of a risk.
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Re: Escort issues

Unread postby ualerroix » 8 May 2020, 12:30

GearFetTwinkRomance wrote:He could have helped me out on a story I wrote about an escort who fell in love to one of his customers, I guess. Instead of having to make it all up, it could have given the whole thing an authentic touch.


I could :) just Russian escort is a bit different from any other.
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Re: Escort issues

Unread postby Eryx » 8 May 2020, 18:23

ualerroix wrote:Would you accept your partner if you'd know he was in escort in his past?
Yeah.
Would you do it if you'd find it out after some period of relationship?
Yeah, as long as he's not doing it while with me.
Maybe you'd be glad about it because such people may be more experienced?
I don't really care about that, there are escorts who are bad at sex and virgins who dominate the bedroom.
Or just indifferent?
Yeah, mostly.
Or it depends on consequences which follows being in escort (diseases, infections, behaviour, circle)?
Those are all conversations that need to be had for any relationship. People who aren't escorts can have diseases, infections or toxic relationships as well.
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