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Unread postby iamlonely99 » 11 September 2020, 00:26

Hey guys,
i was chillin on grindr up until the day before yesterday when someone said hi on grindr. Well even though he had no pic i knew who he was (i live in a small town and he is within walking distance) so i replay back and he asks for a face pic. I went on and my own face pic and then he replied with a fake one cause he probably panicked. Nevertheless i kept on chatting and he is kinda down to meet but how is this going to work? Is he just fooling around making small talk or he is up to something else? Also i really like him and want to meet him but since he sent me that fake pic, i have left almost no hope.... What do you think?

Thank you for your time
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Re: Fake pic, grindr

Unread postby Eryx » 11 September 2020, 22:31

Best case scenario is saying "I know you sent me a fake picture because you're scared, but don't worry, I like you the way you are, and I wish I could meet you." He'll either get more scared and disappear or say yes.
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Re: Fake pic, grindr

Unread postby iamlonely99 » 11 September 2020, 23:24

Well after my post and until i saw your reply we talked a bit (we didnt say anything wow small talk mostly) and he hasnt replied to me text for more than 30+ hours. Do you think its still worth it sending that message?
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Re: Fake pic, grindr

Unread postby René » 11 September 2020, 23:33

iamlonely99 wrote:Well after my post and until i saw your reply we talked a bit (we didnt say anything wow small talk mostly) and he hasnt replied to me text for more than 30+ hours. Do you think its still worth it sending that message?

Yes. You have nothing to lose.
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Re: Fake pic, grindr

Unread postby iamlonely99 » 11 September 2020, 23:50

Okk i guess i ll text him in the morning. Got any other advice?
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Re: Fake pic, grindr

Unread postby iamlonely99 » 12 September 2020, 14:34

So, i sent him what Eryx said and he was like: Why you say that, who you think am I. So i said its ok no problem goodbye and blocked him
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Re: Fake pic, grindr

Unread postby René » 12 September 2020, 17:09

iamlonely99 wrote:So, i sent him what Eryx said and he was like: Why you say that, who you think am I. So i said its ok no problem goodbye and blocked him

Didn't you say you knew for sure who he was and you really liked that person and wanted to meet him? Did you change your mind about that?
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Re: Fake pic, grindr

Unread postby iamlonely99 » 12 September 2020, 17:37

When he kept dening to me about his true identity it was like undermining my intelligence. I wanted him only because of his looks, but when he keeps that attitude of denying it makes me mad. He thinks i am an idiot.

Some backstory:
Before i started this thread and while we were talking we exchange pics, then i told him: Because in the past i have been fooled i want you to know that my pic was real and he answered yeah mine too.

So he had already lied to me once, then i thought to give him a second chance but he blew it too. I have a life to live and i cant wait for him to say the true or even ask him for a third time.

So basically i am fed up with him, i can find someone else if i want

(Sorry for my grammar and vocabulary, english isnt my mother language, for any clarification ask me)
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Re: Fake pic, grindr

Unread postby René » 12 September 2020, 18:01

That makes sense! :)
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Re: Fake pic, grindr

Unread postby iamlonely99 » 12 September 2020, 19:41

Oh good because for a second i thought i was paranoid...
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Re: Fake pic, grindr

Unread postby Jryski » 14 September 2020, 01:12

Reminds me of that time the Sichuanese dude showed up and I held up my phone next to his face with the photo that he sent me. I was like.... no fucking way that’s you! xD I only met up with him cuz he said he’s Sichuanese but damn did he look no where close to his pictures. He tried to turn it around on me and say that I don’t look like my photos either. xD Like wtf ever dude.
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Re: Fake pic, grindr

Unread postby MichaelWSF » 28 September 2020, 14:41

I would have let this go after the fake pic, but that is just my personal way of approaching it. Is it really worth taking it this far? It makes you appear very desperate.
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Re: Fake pic, grindr

Unread postby iamlonely99 » 28 September 2020, 21:09

I am a bit desperate......i am 21 still virgin and kinda very h0rny... Just saying i have fun by myself at least 2-3 times a day so yes i want to have sex!
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Re: Fake pic, grindr

Unread postby MichaelWSF » 28 September 2020, 21:12

No judgment here, as I too feel desperate for sex at times and I'm married and much older than you. I'd have sex with you if you were closer... LOL Good luck!
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