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Friends with benefits?

Unread postby martins » 24 May 2020, 01:02

Right, I met the guy trough Grindr 8 months ago. He said that he broke up with his girlfriend and thought to try Grindr. We talked every day for a month or so and then we finally met. We went out several times till he asked if i want to come over his place after we had few drinks. Sure I did. We hooked up. We were doing it ever since, we went to holidays together and stuff. However lately he has been colder towards me, we don't meet as often and he doesn't show as much interest in me. He says that one day he wants to marry a woman and have kids. But i am very into him, he knows that. What do i do? Do I try to win him back? Let him go? Has anyone been in similar situation?
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Re: Friends with benefits?

Unread postby Eryx » 25 May 2020, 16:17

No, I'm sorry. He seems to be too much into the closet for this to be worth it. I don't think I could be in a relationship with someone who isn't open about himself at this point. I personally suggest you try moving on and being with someone who's more sure of himself.
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Re: Friends with benefits?

Unread postby Frigid » 26 May 2020, 13:05

Nah he’s probably back with his ex
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Re: Friends with benefits?

Unread postby Canela » 26 May 2020, 15:18

I’ve been with closeted dudes and it’s a constant fight, my best advice is to try and move on, who knows maybe in a future, but something better will come along
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