He said he is done during an argument. Should I visit him to talk?

Ask questions and discuss your relationships with partners or parents, family or friends.

He said he is done during an argument. Should I visit him to talk?

Unread postby Zurdoknoc » 11 March 2019, 23:32

I met this guy a few months ago and we’ve been seeing each other regularly. She is out of a relationship and he’s kind of like testing the waters with no pressure to do anything we’re just friends and we go out and talk every day on the phone. Yesterday I told him that I would like to date him and he got mad and upset telling me that at this point he only wants to be friends and see what happens. All this argument was over text messages I was trying to call him and I tried several times and he got upset and mad and he blocked me. We could not finish talking he didn’t hear my point I didn’t hear his point everything west of text message my question is I need to have a conversation with him and I’m thinking about going to his place and show off and have a very peaceful conversation to clean the air and bring the friendship back because I really miss him. I cannot communicate with him because as I said he blocked me should I go to his place and show up and try to clean the air and repair the friendship?
Zurdoknoc
 
Posts: 21
Joined: 7 January 2019, 03:10
Country: United States (us)

Re: He said he is done during an argument. Should I visit him to talk

Unread postby Victor_Laszlo » 11 March 2019, 23:46

I feel like there's more to this then your saying.

Why did he get mad and block you? What was the argument about?

Regardless i think its best to give him some space to let him clear his mind. The fact that he blocked you means he wants some space. So it's probably best to let him have it for a bit.

Showing up to his house might make things worse at the moment.

Good luck with everything though. But right now give him the space he's looking for.

XxxX
Formerly known as Simple_Man

Edna St. Vincent Millay — 'My candle burns at both ends;It will not last the night; But ah, my foes, and oh, my friends—It gives a lovely light!'
User avatar
Victor_Laszlo
 
Posts: 2542
+1s received: 1758
Joined: 30 September 2017, 16:43
Location: Pennsylvania
Country: United States (us)

Re: He said he is done during an argument. Should I visit him to talk

Unread postby Zurdoknoc » 11 March 2019, 23:52

I don’t know why he got mad at me. I was calling himself times to talk but he didn’t want to. I guess that’s when he got mad. I don’t believe in arguments over text messages. He disagree with my proposal of me wanting to date him
And I don’t know why. Because we are basically dating. I said things he didn’t like it. He said things I didn’t like it. Everything went out of control. I think going to his house and talk clamkiy will help.
Zurdoknoc
 
Posts: 21
Joined: 7 January 2019, 03:10
Country: United States (us)

Re: He said he is done during an argument. Should I visit him to talk

Unread postby Eryx » 12 March 2019, 01:45

I don't. I think he'll feel like you're invading his privacy. If he was open to talk he wouldn't have blocked you. I agree with Victor, just give it time, if he wants you in his life he'll come around and unblock you at some point.
Image

Image Image

You are not entitled to your opinion. You are entitled to your informed opinion. No one is entitled to be ignorant.
— Harlan Ellison
User avatar
Eryx
 
Posts: 1391
+1s received: 516
Joined: 20 December 2012, 21:48
Location: Belo Horizonte, MG
Country: Brazil (br)

Re: He said he is done during an argument. Should I visit him to talk

Unread postby Zurdoknoc » 12 March 2019, 02:27

I showed up at his place. We had a great conversation. And we are friends again. We will continue hanging out as friends since he is not there to date yet but he want us to keep hanging out. Good thing I did it.
Zurdoknoc
 
Posts: 21
Joined: 7 January 2019, 03:10
Country: United States (us)

Re: He said he is done during an argument. Should I visit him to talk

Unread postby Eryx » 12 March 2019, 12:43

That's great to hear!
Image

Image Image

You are not entitled to your opinion. You are entitled to your informed opinion. No one is entitled to be ignorant.
— Harlan Ellison
User avatar
Eryx
 
Posts: 1391
+1s received: 516
Joined: 20 December 2012, 21:48
Location: Belo Horizonte, MG
Country: Brazil (br)

Re: He said he is done during an argument. Should I visit him to talk

Unread postby Delishes » 17 March 2019, 02:57

I think you should consider being close friends with him,it seems like you have crush on him.There is nothing wrong to be friends with him tho.It will only make you less viable for newer options out there.(at least your feelings)
Delishes
 
Posts: 6
Joined: 20 November 2017, 20:51


Recently active
Users browsing this forum: ajakes124, BlueBoy19, caco, CommonCrawl [Bot], Delishes, Jzone, Leb_Guy, rogonandi, SebPeace and 13 guests