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How to interpret this??

Unread postby Fyboy89 » 9 April 2020, 17:25

Long story short i have a good friend i think likes me but he hasn't ever told me directly. He said something the other day and i wanted a 3rd party perspective on what he meant.

So we were at work and he asked if i would be interested in splitting the cost of something (a large purchase) and i had said i couldn't commit to that right now, but i said let me put it this way, anythings a possibility. And his response was “yea especially with you” and i asked what he meant and he said “lets just leave that open to interpretation”
This persons been very forward with wanting to hang out making very long term plans with me and we are always together. Im sure he likes me but he's never said it officially.

So i thought about it and am wanting someone else's opinion before i open my mouth to him about it again. Any input would be awesome!!
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Re: How to interpret this??

Unread postby Marmaduke » 9 April 2020, 17:26

What is this purchase?
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Re: How to interpret this??

Unread postby PopTart » 9 April 2020, 17:37

I think your right and he is into you. Make a move. Make it a good one ;)

Marmaduke wrote:What is this purchase?

And please answer this question, I too wish to know.
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Re: How to interpret this??

Unread postby Severelius » 9 April 2020, 17:38

Offer him sexual favours in exchange for your half of this mysterious large purchase?
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Re: How to interpret this??

Unread postby Fyboy89 » 9 April 2020, 17:49

Well not a crazy large purchase, We are both pilots and he wanted to split the cost and share a plane together.

But as far as my friend im with all the time, we text every day, he also recently on april fools day pulled together this prank and when i figured it out he goes “ see now you know. A ordinary person wouldnt go through all the trouble to do that” and left it at that. Im at his place average 2 times a week hanging out, he always initiates texting conversations that sometimes goes on for hours, i also in my office (dont judge me for this) i have a security camera, we watched a video on youtube. The 20 minutes it was he glanced over at me 24 times. I just wanted to see cause i didnt notice what he was doing so i watched the replay. Hes also a while ago brought a friend by and his friend said oh iv heard a lot about you, he really likes you. And theres so much more but ya thats a overview
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Re: How to interpret this??

Unread postby Eryx » 9 April 2020, 18:04

Tell him you're interested, and that if you misunderstood things, that it's okay and you'll respect it. If you didn't, then ask him on a date.
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Re: How to interpret this??

Unread postby Marmaduke » 9 April 2020, 18:10

I mean, I feel like this is possibly wishful thinking. However, the consensus seems to be on your side and that he wants to dick you in an airplane. So yeah, go for it.
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Re: How to interpret this??

Unread postby Severelius » 9 April 2020, 18:11

I'd say he's into you, or at least very open to the idea of joining the mile high club with you at the very least.

I say go for it.
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Re: How to interpret this??

Unread postby PopTart » 9 April 2020, 18:12

Fyboy89 wrote:Well not a crazy large purchase, We are both pilots and he wanted to split the cost and share a plane together.

But as far as my friend im with all the time, we text every day, he also recently on april fools day pulled together this prank and when i figured it out he goes “ see now you know. A ordinary person wouldnt go through all the trouble to do that” and left it at that. Im at his place average 2 times a week hanging out, he always initiates texting conversations that sometimes goes on for hours, i also in my office (dont judge me for this) i have a security camera, we watched a video on youtube. The 20 minutes it was he glanced over at me 24 times. I just wanted to see cause i didnt notice what he was doing so i watched the replay. Hes also a while ago brought a friend by and his friend said oh iv heard a lot about you, he really likes you. And theres so much more but ya thats a overview

Oh, yeah, :pfft: I mean, a plane. I go shopping for those all the time :gayblahblah:

:D

I'm not going to be a cynic and say your lying, because I want it to be true.

But yeah, I can't say your wrong. All of that sounds proof positive he likes you. I mean, short of taking his penis out of his trousers and waving it in your face, I don't think he could be any more obvious. ;)
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Re: How to interpret this??

Unread postby Fyboy89 » 9 April 2020, 18:26

we aren't talking jets here, little prop planes. Im not lying though, I'm telling the truth. Theres so much more thats happened then that that made me feel he likes me but he claims he's full blown republican and doesn't agree with anything on the democratic side which is obviously known for gay rights. But he could just be saying that. I don't want to bring politics into this though.
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Re: How to interpret this??

Unread postby Severelius » 9 April 2020, 18:27

There are gay Republicans. Quite a lot of them. Just sayin'
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Re: How to interpret this??

Unread postby Frigid » 9 April 2020, 19:42

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Re: How to interpret this??

Unread postby InternetShrink » 9 April 2020, 20:37

I wouldn't go as far as saying he wants a relationship with you. However, I would say that it does sound like he is open to experimenting. The fact that he glances at you a lot plus he flirts the way he does are dead give aways. I think the best thing is to bring it up gently. Tell him you've noticed signs that he wants something more than friendship with you, and ask him if that's true. If he says no, be prepared to change the subject. If he says yes, SUCK HIS DICK!!!!
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Re: How to interpret this??

Unread postby Fyboy89 » 11 April 2020, 01:34

Anybody else got any ideas?
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Re: How to interpret this??

Unread postby Marmaduke » 11 April 2020, 15:03

Fyboy89 wrote:Anybody else got any ideas?

I would say to carve your thoughts and feelings into a clay tablet. Have it fired, glazed, and delivered to him.
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