How to make a step

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How to make a step

Unread postby Jack2 » 13 March 2019, 21:23

Hi.

My friend have a gay friend (Lucas). Lucas and me are folowing each other on instagram, but I dont know if he knows is awere of me. Now I dont know hot to ask Lucas to some drink, because we dont go to the same school. And also I cant ask friend for favour, because I havent come out yet, so I dont want him to know, that I want to know Lucas. So what are yours sugestions. Should I write Lucas firs via phone (what should I write).

Thanks for any advice.
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Re: How to make a step

Unread postby mastmck » 13 March 2019, 22:41

I'm I'm not the most experienced at this as I've never had a boyfriend before but in you're place I'd say that I'd like to get to know him a bit better and ask if he wants to meet up maybe for a drink.
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Re: How to make a step

Unread postby Eryx » 13 March 2019, 23:24

If he already follows you, that means he's also interested in you somewhat, since he doesn't really know you in person. I'd start with sending him a direct message and asking him for coffee.
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Re: How to make a step

Unread postby Jack2 » 15 March 2019, 09:38

Thanks :D
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Re: How to make a step

Unread postby Dont.Get.Me.Started » 25 March 2019, 05:56

Personally from my experience, most people aren’t as aware as you think they are. So like, you know that you’re interested in him so that’s a constant thought on your mind. He doesn’t know that, so if you are like, “hey you seem cool we should hang sometime” he’ll probably just think you’re trying to be friends. After you become friends then you can see if he has any interest. The thing to consider here is that WORST case scenario, he’s like “um no thanks” and you move on with your life. Just be friendly and normal and it should work out fine.
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