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Husband says he loves me but is waiting to feel trust again

Unread postby Skoshee1 » 14 October 2020, 04:54

My husband has trust issues with me because I've been on grindr and doing other things that make him feel like I'm cheating on him. I'm not cheating on him I was just not getting my sexual desires met and I was fantasizing about being with other men. He is 100% a bottom and that is what I would like to start feeling too. Anyway he says he loves me very much but hes waiting to see if he has an ah hah moment when he can trust me again. This has been emotionally traumatic for me because I don't know what to do. Is this fair for him to be saying? What should I do? We've been together for 10 years and the idea of not being with him is agonizing. Thanks
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Re: Husband says he loves me but is waiting to feel trust again

Unread postby Eos » 14 October 2020, 18:37

You know each other for a long time...
I see 3 options :
- You get your desire for bottoming somewhere else, since it seems he is not at all into toping. It has to be a decision from both of you.

- You stop having the need to bottom. If it is possible.

- You relationship needs to stop, it's useless to build on frustration until no one can hold the situation anymore.

I don't see your relationship going if anyone stops anyone from being fullfiled.
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