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I am Unhappy and Lonely

Unread postby eeva235 » 12 November 2019, 19:27

I want to have sex with a guy
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Re: I am Unhappy and Lonely

Unread postby Marmaduke » 12 November 2019, 21:47

Nobody wants to fuck a sad loner. Deal with your issues one at a time.
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Re: I am Unhappy and Lonely

Unread postby Brasileiro » 13 November 2019, 14:30

Marmaduke wrote:Nobody wants to fuck a sad loner. Deal with your issues one at a time.

People are way more attractive when they are happy in their own skin and not needy.

Also, if you are needy, the chance of being used and abused is very high.
It is very hard to find a honest person who likes you for who you are and wants to take care of you as if you are a kid that does not need to take on the responisbility to make his own life attractive if you are out there as a sad and lonely person.
You should not simply expect others to make you happy.

Also sex does not cure loneliness.

It is okay and normal to want to have sex, but just go out there and have sex, do not play the sad and lonely card.
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Re: I am Unhappy and Lonely

Unread postby GearFetTwinkRomance » 15 November 2019, 14:23

You can always practise to pretend being a happy person. A lot of sad or lonely people do that all their life. That's the one trick that can fend off being lonely for a while, in case you don't know any else.

Just be yourself and honestly sad will drive off 99.98% of people.
The rest would be them job-wise unsuccessful therapists ;)

Oh, do you happen to be male?
You always can have sex with yourself.
It's another trick, you see, to have sex with a guy. :D
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Re: I am Unhappy and Lonely

Unread postby Tristane » 28 November 2019, 11:10

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Re: I am Unhappy and Lonely

Unread postby NobodySpecial » 4 December 2019, 19:41

Sadness and loneliness are usually a sign that one spends too much time in one's own head.

I think you should get sex out of the forefront of your mind. You have hands if you really need to get off.

In the mean time simply reach out to others so see how you can help them. It can even be showing kindness to animals. These things may not "cure" sadness and loneliness, but the less mental time you spend thinking about these things, the less likely they will feel so strong.

You might even be pleasantly surprised that as you reach out to others with no expectation for love/sex from them, the more likely you will find someone special.

PS: When I say reach out to others (ie volunteerism, etc), I mean in real life. Don't replace real life interactions with online. An emphasis on online interactions only really enforces isolation.
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