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I am worrying about my best friend

Unread postby Eos » 16 February 2020, 08:57

Hi !

I need to talk about an issue that I am having.

I'll sum up how we met.
5/6 years ago, we played together on the PS4 for many years. One year ago, we both decided to have a very depth conversation to talk about both of our life.

Since then we created a bound that I never felt before.
He is in Switzerland, and have a difficult job so we can't see each other easily, but we make sure to try whenever we can.

However, he decided to stop playing games to focus on his job (he will get some kind of degree by the end of August so he will have a lot of exams). I completely understood that even if it made me sad.

Even if we don't play together, we still text eachother quite often.

However, since the beginning of the month, he no longer take the time to respond me anymore.
I told him why, and that I was here if he needed any help. He just said it was because of his job.
No message since.
I asked if he thought I was being annoying, but I had no response at all. Even a Yes or No would to the trick.

I am worrying a lot if he is OK. Because I know he don't easily tell when something is wrong. Even before we went through terrible life moments, and I always made sure if he was Ok.

I really don't think I am an issue, in fact, when we went through those terrible moments he thanked me for being here, and that I truly was one of his best friend.

Also, I know me. I know I tend to worry a lot for nothing. Today I woke up and I checked his mom's name since I was worried if she was Ok (she has cancer).

I talked about it with my uncle, he said I was worrying too much. I agreed with him, but I also said that I liked and wanted to worry. Why ? Because the second you stop worrying you greatly reduce your chance of noticing an issue or helping someone. I know some of you will disagree with this, but I had terrible moments in my life when I stopped worrying and it led to something worse. No more. I don't want to lose people because I wasn't here.

I definitely know that I try to carry the weight of my world. I know that I can't. But I won't stop trying. That's who I want to be. I know I won't have the easiest life, the happiest life. But I also know that I will always be there for the people I love (there isn't much people like that).

I don't know why I wrote all of that today. I don't think you can resolve this issue. But I think I need some support, some "hang in there" so I don't lose my mind.

Thank for reading this.
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Re: I am worrying about my best friend

Unread postby Eos » 16 February 2020, 13:24

Never mind, he just talked to me today, I feel much better ^^
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Re: I am worrying about my best friend

Unread postby Revontulet » 17 February 2020, 01:43

Thank you for sharing your situation with us, but hey, he talked to you, and you're already better. Superb. ^^
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