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Unread postby asianduck888 » 4 January 2022, 10:05

Hi everyone,

I am 33 yo, and feeling so lonely. my circle of friendship is become smaller and smaller. and I literally didn't making any contact with other people except people in my house. and for few years I never ever leave my house at all, I don't go to work with the covid situation is really hard to find a job, so I just learning something or do animation. I have few bestfriend but they are busy with their family.

If someone here feel lonely too, maybe we can be friend. chatting or night call before sleep would be great. I have lots of interest, science, game, cooking, animation, movie.

Message Me if interested :) ,
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Re: I feel so lonely

Unread postby pozzie » 4 January 2022, 21:00

I wish you good luck on the loneliness front. I actually got used to being on my own a few years before Covid, so the adjustment hasn't been difficult for me but I totally get that for more outgoing people, these are hard times. (And we'll soon have the omicron numbers to prove it with lots of holiday get-togethers bearing fruit.) I personally encourage you to continue posting on the open forum - and would like to see some new topics, so don't hesitate there.
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Re: I feel so lonely

Unread postby Pinga » 6 January 2022, 08:45

Hey I heard you! I am lonely too. Can we become friends if possible!
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Re: I feel so lonely

Unread postby asianduck888 » 8 January 2022, 15:15

pozzie wrote:I wish you good luck on the loneliness front. I actually got used to being on my own a few years before Covid, so the adjustment hasn't been difficult for me but I totally get that for more outgoing people, these are hard times. (And we'll soon have the omicron numbers to prove it with lots of holiday get-togethers bearing fruit.) I personally encourage you to continue posting on the open forum - and would like to see some new topics, so don't hesitate there.


No interaction with other people i found a bit stressing, even living with family we didn't interact much. the last time i felt this feeling is when i was in Univ, i always thinking about to end of my life. even have best friend i can't talk everything about my secret being gay, then i start making penpal friend by sending mail regularly, i've very best friend from Netherland and Korea for many years, it really help with my situation. then one day i don't know maybe i am too busy with work somehow we lost contact. yeah, omicron is on the spot light now, daily death in my country is below 10 but yeah omicron will overtake the delta. I will still posting in forum, but interact in forum doesn't have deep connection only bond to the topic.

Pinga wrote:Hey I heard you! I am lonely too. Can we become friends if possible!
Thanks


I'd love too :)
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Re: I feel so lonely

Unread postby Pinga » 13 January 2022, 07:53

Hey I got your message inbox. Please take my number 0016393840608.
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Re: I feel so lonely

Unread postby McTaggartfan » 17 January 2022, 08:17

I've heard that death can be helpful!
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Re: I feel so lonely

Unread postby Marmaduke » 17 January 2022, 16:37

McTaggartfan wrote:I've heard that death can be helpful!

Did you just recommend suicide?

Do you think you’re funny, or are you just really leaning into being the prick you keep on telling anyone that will listen that you’re not?
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Re: I feel so lonely

Unread postby PopTart » 17 January 2022, 20:34

Marmaduke wrote:
McTaggartfan wrote:I've heard that death can be helpful!

Did you just recommend suicide?

Do you think you’re funny, or are you just really leaning into being the prick you keep on telling anyone that will listen that you’re not?

Yeah, not cool. If your struggling McTaggart, perhaps finding a way to express that, which doesn't involve trying to drag other people down with you would be better.

Either that or this was a joke that seriously misfired.
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Re: I feel so lonely

Unread postby pozzie » 17 January 2022, 21:24

yeah, what's up, dude?
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Re: I feel so lonely

Unread postby McTaggartfan » 18 January 2022, 04:57

Marmaduke wrote:
McTaggartfan wrote:I've heard that death can be helpful!

Did you just recommend suicide?

Do you think you’re funny, or are you just really leaning into being the prick you keep on telling anyone that will listen that you’re not?


Sorry you disagree, but I see nothing wrong with suicide.
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Re: I feel so lonely

Unread postby PopTart » 18 January 2022, 05:16

McTaggartfan wrote:
Marmaduke wrote:
McTaggartfan wrote:I've heard that death can be helpful!

Did you just recommend suicide?

Do you think you’re funny, or are you just really leaning into being the prick you keep on telling anyone that will listen that you’re not?


Sorry you disagree, but I see nothing wrong with suicide.

It's promoting it to others that's wrong.

You might not like your life much, but I'd suggest not going around encouraging others to commit suicide.

It's vulgar.
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Re: I feel so lonely

Unread postby McTaggartfan » 18 January 2022, 06:41

PopTart wrote:
McTaggartfan wrote:
Marmaduke wrote:
McTaggartfan wrote:I've heard that death can be helpful!

Did you just recommend suicide?

Do you think you’re funny, or are you just really leaning into being the prick you keep on telling anyone that will listen that you’re not?


Sorry you disagree, but I see nothing wrong with suicide.

It's promoting it to others that's wrong.

You might not like your life much, but I'd suggest not going around encouraging others to commit suicide.

It's vulgar.


If there’s nothing wrong with suicide, then what’s the problem in suggesting it?
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Re: I feel so lonely

Unread postby erti » 18 January 2022, 07:13

I like to add, if you promote suicide to someone online and they do the deed, than it can come back to you legally.
“Don't take my devils away, because my angels may flee too.”

― Rainer Maria Rilke
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Re: I feel so lonely

Unread postby pozzie » 18 January 2022, 07:30

Are you on any medications that tend to provoke suicide ideation? I've heard of such even with some anti-depressants. My hope is that you'll look for and seek some other alternative. I'd throw some platitudes at you, but that won't help. Have you talked to a professional about what you're dealing with? I read that lots of folks are finding everything particularly difficult these days and many are feeling down. I wish you well. :)
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Re: I feel so lonely

Unread postby Marmaduke » 18 January 2022, 08:12

McTaggartfan wrote:
PopTart wrote:
McTaggartfan wrote:
Marmaduke wrote:
McTaggartfan wrote:I've heard that death can be helpful!

Did you just recommend suicide?

Do you think you’re funny, or are you just really leaning into being the prick you keep on telling anyone that will listen that you’re not?


Sorry you disagree, but I see nothing wrong with suicide.

It's promoting it to others that's wrong.

You might not like your life much, but I'd suggest not going around encouraging others to commit suicide.

It's vulgar.


If there’s nothing wrong with suicide, then what’s the problem in suggesting it?

Why are you being obtuse? Do you actually think you can talk your way of the disgusting little corner you’ve found yourself in? Are you that stupid?

You genuinely can’t wrap your head around “why don’t you just kill yourself?” being an inexcusable reply to someone simply stating that they’re lonely and having a hard time with it. He’s not said he’s suicidal. He’s not said he’s struggling mentally. He’s said he’s lonely and asking for a steer on ways he can meet new people. At best, he - as the rest of us have - will recognise you for the spiteful little asshole you are. At worst, you plant a seed that results in his death. For nothing. No gain. No positive. Just a life for your vindictive little outlet.

One shouldn’t really give advice one isn’t willing to employ oneself. And you never would, because then you’d miss out on feeding on the sympathy of others like the emotional vampire you are. Fuck all the way off.
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Re: I feel so lonely

Unread postby PopTart » 18 January 2022, 08:44

Marmaduke wrote:
McTaggartfan wrote:
PopTart wrote:
McTaggartfan wrote:
Marmaduke wrote:
McTaggartfan wrote:I've heard that death can be helpful!

Did you just recommend suicide?

Do you think you’re funny, or are you just really leaning into being the prick you keep on telling anyone that will listen that you’re not?


Sorry you disagree, but I see nothing wrong with suicide.

It's promoting it to others that's wrong.

You might not like your life much, but I'd suggest not going around encouraging others to commit suicide.

It's vulgar.


If there’s nothing wrong with suicide, then what’s the problem in suggesting it?

Why are you being obtuse? Do you actually think you can talk your way of the disgusting little corner you’ve found yourself in? Are you that stupid?

You genuinely can’t wrap your head around “why don’t you just kill yourself?” being an inexcusable reply to someone simply stating that they’re lonely and having a hard time with it. He’s not said he’s suicidal. He’s not said he’s struggling mentally. He’s said he’s lonely and asking for a steer on ways he can meet new people. At best, he - as the rest of us have - will recognise you for the spiteful little asshole you are. At worst, you plant a seed that results in his death. For nothing. No gain. No positive. Just a life for your vindictive little outlet.

One shouldn’t really give advice one isn’t willing to employ oneself. And you never would, because then you’d miss out on feeding on the sympathy of others like the emotional vampire you are. Fuck all the way off.
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Re: I feel so lonely

Unread postby pozzie » 18 January 2022, 08:59

One bad thing about these threads: we pop in and out of them and sometimes it feels like walking back into a conversation you never really left. I apologize, I thought someone was considering suicide, not recommending it, even jokingly. But then again, I treat the vast majority of posts as literal unless it's obvious sarcasm.

Not sure I can think of a time that was right to make such jokes, especially in a setting like this. I hope no one around here is actually considering suicide and no, it's not appropriate to suggest it to others.

Again, my apologies for getting on the wrong track guys.
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Re: I feel so lonely

Unread postby Subra » 20 January 2022, 12:57

McTaggartfan wrote:I've heard that death can be helpful!

You're a smelly piece of shit aren't you? A real stinker.
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Re: I feel so lonely

Unread postby diezfer28 » 21 January 2022, 17:10

asianduck888 wrote:Hi everyone,

I am 33 yo, and feeling so lonely. my circle of friendship is become smaller and smaller. and I literally didn't making any contact with other people except people in my house. and for few years I never ever leave my house at all, I don't go to work with the covid situation is really hard to find a job, so I just learning something or do animation. I have few bestfriend but they are busy with their family.

If someone here feel lonely too, maybe we can be friend. chatting or night call before sleep would be great. I have lots of interest, science, game, cooking, animation, movie.

Message Me if interested :) ,

feeling the same lately.
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Re: I feel so lonely

Unread postby pozzie » 21 January 2022, 20:23

Welcome to the forum, diezfer28. Hope you find some discussions that help you feel a little more connected.
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