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Is He Into Me...?

Unread postby TennesseeJosh » 27 June 2022, 20:10

First, I am so blind when it comes to recognizing if a guy is into me. Second, I tend to read into things and drive myself crazy.

So here goes.... I have known a guy for many, many years. I was recently on vacation and through Facebook he knew that I would also be in the area I grew up (same town as him) we talk regularly via FB and texting and call here and there. We mad plans for us to meet up and hang out. No plans, just wing it. The day came and it was GREAT! First time we have physically seen each other in many years. We had a great time!

He laughed and smiled a lot. He did not look at his phone a lot. He took a picture of the two of us together and immediately posted it to Facebook and tagged me. Said "A day of smiles with this man" later he took a pic of us at the movies and tagged me...

When he left my hotel (No funny business. We just met there to ride in one car) anyway, he hugged my bye, kissed me on the cheek and then I walked him out to his truck. Once we got to his truck, he hugged me again and then a quick kiss on the lips. WOW! I remembered he left something in my car so I went to get it. He rolled down his window, got what I handed to him and then he leaned his head out and kissed me quick on the lips again... WOW!!!!

Once he got home, he let me know he made it safely. In a text he said "I had a good time. I cant remember the last time I smiled and laughed that much. Im glad it was with you" Awwweeee!!!!!

He has mentioned that he wants to make more plans together. A good friend of his called him to ask about me because of the FB posts... He said "We are just friends.. I mean, at least for now"

The day after we hung out, he did text me good morning. And a goodnight text last night. He did call last night while he was cooking.. Not heard from him today but he does work outdoors in construction so I am sure he has been busy.

So - Hep me out! Am I reading into this way too much? Does he like me more than a friend but is taking it slow? Or, am i just making this up in my head?

Cant wait to hear from you!!!
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Re: Is He Into Me...?

Unread postby TennesseeJosh » 5 July 2022, 14:15

So here's an update.... We hung out over the weekend. Saturday it was with his best friend and Sunday it was with his mom, brother and sister in law... His mom really liked me. Last night he said in a text that he really wished I lived closer abut will make lemonade out of lemons for now. I am not that far, about 2 hours. He said he like us hanging out because he can be silly and not judged... and again, both Saturday and Sunday he kissed me on the lips as he hugged me bye..
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Re: Is He Into Me...?

Unread postby 21-79BB! » 5 July 2022, 16:33

Thanks for sharing! It sounds like both of you are moving forward in the right way. Continue spending time together. Continue relating in a friendly, comfortable and open manner. Share common hobbies and interests. Return his kiss and see what he says or does. If he is showing that he is open to a warm hug, do so!!! Consider sharing fully- nude massage in private. You know you'll both get erect, so enjoy stroking each other slowly before cumming. (Take your time, and revel in the fact that you are giving each other pleasure. Enjoy watching each other cum, as well as your reactions to the ultimate pleasure.) Consider spending the night together, and just hold one another tenderly, while nude. Gently touch and hold one another as often as possible. There is nothing wrong with disclosing your sexual histories with each other, and no shame in being tested before sharing fellatio or anal sex. Just keep moving forward in a positive manner, and keep us informed! Good luck!
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Re: Is He Into Me...?

Unread postby LokiLover87 » 11 August 2022, 00:58

Well that reply took a turn dude.

Sounds like things are progressing nicely! Good luck.
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Re: Is He Into Me...?

Unread postby ChristopherT525 » 11 August 2022, 14:24

Sounds like a lovely relationship to have with someone, I'd say put the breaks on what you're calling it for the moment and enjoy it for what it is. After a while then make some decisions if it still feels right. When the fire of lust and newness burns-out, having spent time together you'll have a better understanding of whether you'll be happy to sit next to him for the life-time comfort of a warm glow.
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