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Unread postby Just_tell_me_truth » 26 January 2022, 09:24

Okay so I just need some opinions. I feel like I’m struggling here (even though to you, this might be an obvious answer)
But my husband has a nephew who is about 23-24 around there. He made an only fans with his girlfriend at the time and me being the perv I am, subscribed. After I masturbate to the videos I instantly feel guilty, and like I shouldn’t have done this. My husband and I are in an open relationship, so it’s not like he would be upset if he knew I was looking at someone else, but I know he wouldn’t like me subscribing to his nephew.
What would you do? Indulge further? Or cease all subscribing?
Is this super fucked up of me? Or should I cut myself some slack, since both parties don’t even know this has happened (my husband and his nephew)
I’m very much happy with my man, I just have a freaky side that he doesn’t necessarily know about lol.
Also please don’t judge me, this is literally so hard to even write this 😭
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Unread postby Chetty » 26 January 2022, 17:11

You didn’t mention what kind of videos you’re masturbating to. Is it if the nephew and his gf having sex or is it solo nephew showing his amazing hard cock ?

This kink you talk about, is it for younger smooth guys like your man’s nephew or ?.

Depending on the answers maybe the best thing is to unsubscribe and find something similar to beat off to. I’m horny pretty much all the time and love jerking off to all kinds of things but also love being in a relationship. All about need for release.
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Unread postby pozzie » 26 January 2022, 19:55

To me, the specifics are pretty much unimportant. If you are feeling this isn't quite right, well then, you've pretty much answered your own question. If you're still not quite sure, you could take them to lunch, tell them you've been watching, and enjoying the show. Your reaction to that should give you a pretty strong indication of how you really feel about this.
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Unread postby Eryx » 26 January 2022, 20:48

I think it's fine, but if it bothers you to the extent of feeling guilty and bad about it, then you can probably do without it. Otherwise it might cause uneasy moments with your husband and that will be a problem.
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Re: Is it messed up that I subscribed to my boyfriends nephews onlyfan

Unread postby Marmaduke » 26 January 2022, 21:22

Let’s be real, it’s not the nephew himself that’s getting you off. It’s not even that he’s related to your husband. It’s the perception of taboo that is getting you off. You know your husband would be upset by it and that excites you. You come here, hoping that we’ll all tell you it’s super wrong and it’ll just make your orgasms all the stronger.

You want it to be wrong. You only enjoy it because you already think it’s wrong. Asking us if we think it’s wrong isn’t a quest for moral clarity, it’s a Hail Mary play that we’ll all condemn your choice and reinforce your fantasy. You’ll have already cum by now, you didn’t anticipate how much edging was actually required for this bet to yield a return. We’ll never see you again.

On the rare chance I’m wrong, I trust you’ll forgive me for not admonishing you towards an altogether more satisfying orgasm, we’re just a quite liberal bunch here.

He put the videos up, he knew the game when he started playing. You’re supporting your nephews business venture and reaping the harmless and expected benefit. Now, telling him that you’re doing it and then getting off on continuing to do so once he knows you’re doing it? That’s where your perverse little love of the taboo crosses a line. Here and now? It’s harmless. Apologies if that conclusion renders you flaccid and disinterested.
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Unread postby asianduck888 » 27 January 2022, 08:31

I don't know, i never have relationship. if I were you maybe I will ask same question.
because i don't know what to do and don't as a partner. i am horny all the time even sometime I curious about my brother package how does it look I love dick in general, but of course doing with him and imagine doing it makes me want to puke . I thinks its same case with you as long as you don't have intention to further action. i think its ok, or i don't know. pretend it is as pocket money for him or family support, if i am your husband be like
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Unread postby acpro » 29 January 2022, 12:07

Marmaduke wrote:Let’s be real, it’s not the nephew himself that’s getting you off. It’s not even that he’s related to your husband. It’s the perception of taboo that is getting you off. You know your husband would be upset by it and that excites you. You come here, hoping that we’ll all tell you it’s super wrong and it’ll just make your orgasms all the stronger.

You want it to be wrong. You only enjoy it because you already think it’s wrong. Asking us if we think it’s wrong isn’t a quest for moral clarity, it’s a Hail Mary play that we’ll all condemn your choice and reinforce your fantasy. You’ll have already cum by now, you didn’t anticipate how much edging was actually required for this bet to yield a return. We’ll never see you again.

On the rare chance I’m wrong, I trust you’ll forgive me for not admonishing you towards an altogether more satisfying orgasm, we’re just a quite liberal bunch here.

He put the videos up, he knew the game when he started playing. You’re supporting your nephews business venture and reaping the harmless and expected benefit. Now, telling him that you’re doing it and then getting off on continuing to do so once he knows you’re doing it? That’s where your perverse little love of the taboo crosses a line. Here and now? It’s harmless. Apologies if that conclusion renders you flaccid and disinterested.


You're a good writer. You could do that professionally.
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Unread postby PopTart » 29 January 2022, 12:19

Lets be honest, this guy aint coming back, yet I'll share my thoughts anyway, because it's an interesting situation.

I'm going to avoid making judgements, could be alot of reasons for why you enjoy watching your bf's nephew fucking. We could analyse all that and come to so many conclusions, many lurid and extreme and some not so.

Do I think it's a problem? I would agree with Pozzie and Eryx, if your asking, you might have already answered your own question.

That said, if you feel that it isn't affecting your relationship with any party, your husband and you feel that, on the scale of things to keep from a husband you love, this is quite insignificant, then I don't see there be any issue. Maybe there is an element of voyeurism at play here. Who can rightly say?

So long as no harm is done, no problem.

I personally wouldnt tell anyone involved I was doing it, because that seems destined to just cause issues. But if you want to take the chance that your husband would be okay with it, or his nephew would be okay with it, by all means do so, but I wouldn't want to roll the dice. Crap odds.
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Re: Is it messed up that I subscribed to my boyfriends nephews onlyfan

Unread postby Marmaduke » 30 January 2022, 18:48

acpro wrote:
Marmaduke wrote:Let’s be real, it’s not the nephew himself that’s getting you off. It’s not even that he’s related to your husband. It’s the perception of taboo that is getting you off. You know your husband would be upset by it and that excites you. You come here, hoping that we’ll all tell you it’s super wrong and it’ll just make your orgasms all the stronger.

You want it to be wrong. You only enjoy it because you already think it’s wrong. Asking us if we think it’s wrong isn’t a quest for moral clarity, it’s a Hail Mary play that we’ll all condemn your choice and reinforce your fantasy. You’ll have already cum by now, you didn’t anticipate how much edging was actually required for this bet to yield a return. We’ll never see you again.

On the rare chance I’m wrong, I trust you’ll forgive me for not admonishing you towards an altogether more satisfying orgasm, we’re just a quite liberal bunch here.

He put the videos up, he knew the game when he started playing. You’re supporting your nephews business venture and reaping the harmless and expected benefit. Now, telling him that you’re doing it and then getting off on continuing to do so once he knows you’re doing it? That’s where your perverse little love of the taboo crosses a line. Here and now? It’s harmless. Apologies if that conclusion renders you flaccid and disinterested.


You're a good writer. You could do that professionally.

Nahhh, you’ve been hoodwinked. It’s my use of the word “admonishing”. It’s tricked you into thinking the whole post has intellectual merit. I’m not a very good writer, but I am very good at placing key words to give the impression that I’m a good writer. Sadly, professional copy editors are somewhat trickier to bamboozle.
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Unread postby Derek » 30 January 2022, 22:06

Is he hot?
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Unread postby rogonandi » 30 January 2022, 23:40

It’s probably not your proudest fap, but you’ll do it again. :P
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Unread postby Justablondguy » 5 February 2022, 21:36

I don't even have to read the rest of what you wrote. Your question is all I read but you know the answer to that. Its wrong and don't screw around with his nephew it will hurt and ruin the relationship if you proceed.
There are boundaries in life and this is one you don't mess with. there's tons of guys wanting to show it off don't choose your boyfriends family to follow and sexually follow that. just avoid it. Have respect for your partners family.
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