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Unread postby Roscoe » 10 November 2022, 06:33

Hello

Mike here, I am new to the forum. I am in a longterm relationship of 45 years, we have raised a child long before it was fashionable, became grandfather's together. We lived a good life in Chicago, Santa Fe and Iowa. Both educated, professional’ people more about easy living rather than climbing corporate ladders, we did ok. I would love to exchange ideas and experiences with older men in longterm relationships or single mature guys. I want to know about sex, monogamy and how it progresses with age and long relationships. Also older guys in non-monogamous relationship and single guys. Mature men get lost in the gay World, know one ever talks about us. Be safe. Hope to see responses :gayblahblah: :gayblahblah: .
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Re: Longterm relationships

Unread postby asianduck888 » 11 November 2022, 17:08

Hello,

happy to hear that you have wonderful life with your partner and your little family.
I wish that I could have family like you have, kids and grandkids. I am 34yo I think my birthday is last week, I lost counting of my age coz no one important here remember my birthday except mom, but no celebration or anything.
I never have relationship or actual sex with other guy, I have monogamy principle in my mind and I haven't found one. being gay living in my country is hard. I want to go away from here but don't know where to go, I am afraid if I am getting older and living alone without have freedom of my sexuality and my own family.
anyway, welcome to the forum,,,
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Re: Longterm relationships

Unread postby Rambunctious05 » 15 November 2022, 14:41

I admire what you have accomplished in your relationship. Best wishes for both of you!
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Re: Longterm relationships

Unread postby Roscoe » 15 November 2022, 16:56

Thank you so much. It was lots of highs and lows but in the end worth it.
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Re: Longterm relationships

Unread postby NobodySpecial » 15 November 2022, 19:12

Congratulations on 45 years. In comparison, I have only been in my relationship for 19+ years. We are monogamous although with my bad case of ED, It isn't something I can really brag about.. I would say that if someone could give me a cure, but it required having other partners, I would simply decline. Don't get me wrong, monogamy isn't easy. It isn't like I don't notice attractive men. I simply put loyalty way above anything else. Even if he would never know, I would. All my life, I yearned for that special one to love and be loved by. Screwing around -- with approval or not, would simply diminish what we have. I know that for many men (gay, str8, bi, etc) tend to separate sex from emotion. However, for me that always diminished the sex. Note, I have had many experiences before my partner came into my life. When there was nothing more than sex involved, there was a feeling that the orgasms were not complete. It wasn't a feeling of guilt, just something missing. Not being in the pool of m2m partners is no loss to the gay/bi world.. I am no Adonis. However, it is a gain to my partner in that he can count on me to be his and his alone. Somethings are just to precious to fiddle with. It may be boring, but that matters to me. We never took any vows. I just know what I feel is really right -- absolute loyalty.
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Re: Longterm relationships

Unread postby Roscoe » 16 November 2022, 00:42

I enjoyed and admire your honesty about your relationship. I can relate to everything you said so well and I would like to chat more with you. I am new here and not sure how to send private messages. Can you tell me how to do it ?
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Unread postby Roscoe » 16 November 2022, 20:08

I am new here and unable to write or respond to a PM, this what I get, “ We are sorry, but you are not authorised to use this feature. You may have just registered here and may need to participate more to be able to use this feature”. Can some one help me please?
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Re: Longterm relationships

Unread postby IanSaidHi » 16 November 2022, 20:23

Roscoe wrote:“ We are sorry, but you are not authorised to use this feature. You may have just registered here and may need to participate more to be able to use this feature”. Can some one help me please?


I would guess you need to post a bit more before the chat feature is unlocked - I see you only have four posts so far. I don’t know how many posts you need but keep going and eventually you’ll be able to.

This is natural on these kinds of sites due to spammy spam bots and sales people creating fake profiles, preventing them from filling our inboxes with junk.
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Re: Longterm relationships

Unread postby Roscoe » 16 November 2022, 21:27

Thank you very much
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