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Married but "Single"

Unread postby Tommy787 » 19 April 2021, 06:48

I've been with my now husband for 6 years , married for 5 (just such a catch).. when we first started dating the sex was great, 3/ 4 times a week sometimes more, then he moved in after 7 months and it got comfortable and the sex started drying to 2/ times a week ... roll on 5 years and it's like the Sahara.

As the years have gone on the sex has got less and less , not just the sex but even the naked snuggles , feeling each other etc .. we had a chat a couple of years ago about the situation and he said it was because of his diabetes (type 2) , so now he's sorted with meds and is doing ok that side , but still nothing going on down there.

I feel a bit selfish thinking god I wish he would just do something with it because maybe he really can't, maybe he's just not that into me anymore ... all the while my sex drive is increasing and can't so anything with it lol

Anyone in/been in the same boat , advice would be great
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Re: Married but "Single"

Unread postby Eryx » 22 April 2021, 17:30

Couple's therapy, common fetishes, bringing someone else into the mix for sex, or break up. Those are the most common solutions.
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Re: Married but "Single"

Unread postby weedan » 15 May 2021, 21:52

You need to talk some more to him, Perhaps there is other things you can do together if he is not longer able to get hard. Tell him how you feel and go from there
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