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Met the ex and they still live together.

Unread postby Ocguy » 14 August 2020, 11:17

Hi all:
I met a great guy whom I know now for 6 weeks. His ex of 5 years still lives in his house and they share....a lot of things still. I've been ok with everything I have to say.
Tonight he invited me over. I was surprised since I know the ex is there during the week. We had a good time. At some point we were hanging out a the sofa and the ex came in from the main door from work. My guy almost jump off the sofa and he moved away from me. All of us said hi. I said hi to the ex. etc. I had to leave because it was getting late but also I felt a bit uncomfortable because of his reaction.
He said the ex and him have been pretty respectful on who they bring to his house.
Another thing....by accident I saw a drawing of the 2 of them and his mom in a frame by the lower shelf of the table. thought was weird too but I thought..."Well it is his mom and him in the picture"....
anyway,,,just wanted to share with you and get your opinion......
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Re: Met the ex and they still live together.

Unread postby Eryx » 14 August 2020, 14:22

The fact that they live together in itself isn't a problem, it's the dynamic between the two that will tell if he's really over him or not. The fact that the jumped up might just mean he's still a little embarrassed to have other guys showing up in front of the ex, it's worth talking about.
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