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My rant

Unread postby Cousin Itt » 1 April 2020, 01:41

I can't remember if I posted about this before but I'm hurt lost and broken.


I developed feeling for my best friend/ roommate he is bi fucked 33 people sells his nudes to his gay friends.
But when I tell him how I feel he says his gay days are over then 3 days later goes out with a guy I like because he paid him $60 but when it comes to me I'm not his choice. Found out from his ex he called me ugly as fuck. She also said he lied about being raped. He wasn't he gave his ass to the guy willing. I can't stop thinking about him when I finally had sex with someone the only way I could cum was to pretend I was with him. We had a fight Now he's moved out. It's been a week I miss him so much and I don't know who to believe or trust. Him or his ex . he says she lies about everything. Now I can barely get him to talk to me. All I get is 1 word answers.
I don't expect a reply from anyone I was need to rant.
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Re: My rant

Unread postby GearFetTwinkRomance » 1 April 2020, 02:09

Yeah, well, to write it all down often may help to relief somewhat of it all. Once in a while we all need a good rant. Although I wouldn't know how to help in that a situation. For an outsider it's always easy to say, just to get on with life and try to cry away the damn pain.
A dude of whom you're not the type and who will make out with other guys at any time, yet a liar and some wannabe nasty bitch ... sorry if that is rude, but don't ye think there are better guys available?

I understand there are / were certain love feelings involved. Will make it harder to let go. But you know, with time and after some sad songs you may meet some different people, get new connections going.

Writing it all down would be a good venting method, too.

Some people use counselling for help.
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Unread postby Cousin Itt » 1 April 2020, 02:18

I have I video chat with a therapist tomorrow. Bad thing he is the first guy I had feelings are since coming out. I feel like he lead me on. I saved his life. Back in October. It kills me not to have him in my life. Even as a friend.
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Unread postby Frigid » 1 April 2020, 06:21

He isn’t into you. What part of him saying he doesn’t want to be with makes you feel he led you on?
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Unread postby Cousin Itt » 1 April 2020, 06:27

Because he would flirt with me every day. And would grab my ass all the time.
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Unread postby Cousin Itt » 1 April 2020, 06:28

But he would get offended if I looked at him when he was shirtless. And he was all the time.
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Unread postby Eos » 1 April 2020, 07:42

He sounds like a liar and manipulative.
You're better off with him.
I'm not saying it is easy, especially if it is the first person you fell in love with, but I guarantee you there will be a time where you will realise it would never have worked.
It's just my opinion.
I hope your situation will improve. There is many men out there.
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Unread postby GearFetTwinkRomance » 1 April 2020, 09:45

Cousin Itt wrote:I have I video chat with a therapist tomorrow. Bad thing he is the first guy I had feelings are since coming out. I feel like he lead me on. I saved his life. Back in October. It kills me not to have him in my life. Even as a friend.


Honestly, from reading the way this guy seems to act, he might as well just have played you, and used your kind response to have a flat he could use until he'd find another place.
Manipulative, aye. As Eos put it.
Happens, if you don't know people long enough I guess.
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Unread postby René » 1 April 2020, 10:03

You have a crush on him, he doesn't reciprocate and you will never be together. It's very sad, but we've all been through this many times. You just need time to get over it. It will pass. I know it's hard, but try to keep your mind off him. :hug:
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Unread postby Marmaduke » 1 April 2020, 10:23

Is your victim complex so deeply rooted that you're actually making yourself out to be hard done by because a friend - often a position which quite understandly justifies a lack of sexual interest - doesn't want to fuck you? Do you feel that somehow because he has fucked other men, that you are somehow equally entitled to his sexual interest as any of them? Because you're not. And now your unhealthy fixation has caused your friend to move out and push him further and further away, it's like you can't see the cause and effect that's right in front of you.

Genuinely, what's wrong with you?
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Re: My rant

Unread postby Cousin Itt » 2 April 2020, 04:29

Everything is wrong with me im broken but don't worry im going away for good this time I'm done I quit. I give up
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Unread postby Eos » 2 April 2020, 12:35

Instead of saying why I hate this kind of thoughts, I'm just gonna link this :

https://youtu.be/kDNgedhV1LY
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Unread postby InternetShrink » 3 April 2020, 03:38

Cousin Itt wrote:Everything is wrong with me im broken but don't worry im going away for good this time I'm done I quit. I give up


Is everything wrong with you or is everything wrong with other people?
That'll be 500 bucks.
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Unread postby Marmaduke » 3 April 2020, 05:02

InternetShrink wrote:
Cousin Itt wrote:Everything is wrong with me im broken but don't worry im going away for good this time I'm done I quit. I give up


Is everything wrong with you or is everything wrong with other people?

Him.
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Unread postby InternetShrink » 3 April 2020, 05:39

Marmaduke wrote:
InternetShrink wrote:
Cousin Itt wrote:Everything is wrong with me im broken but don't worry im going away for good this time I'm done I quit. I give up


Is everything wrong with you or is everything wrong with other people?

Him.

Hol up you dont mean CousinIt do you? I was trying to get him to see that there is nothing attributionaly wrong with him, but the guy he's having a hard time with. Maybe my logic is biased, but if someone you've been friends with for a while suddenly won't give you the light of day, something is attributionaly wrong with them.
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Unread postby Marmaduke » 3 April 2020, 06:01

InternetShrink wrote:
Marmaduke wrote:
InternetShrink wrote:
Cousin Itt wrote:Everything is wrong with me im broken but don't worry im going away for good this time I'm done I quit. I give up


Is everything wrong with you or is everything wrong with other people?

Him.

Hol up you dont mean CousinIt do you? I was trying to get him to see that there is nothing attributionaly wrong with him, but the guy he's having a hard time with. Maybe my logic is biased, but if someone you've been friends with for a while suddenly won't give you the light of day, something is attributionaly wrong with them.

No, you’ve not read the story properly. CousinIt has made repeated romantic and sexual advances to a platonic friend, despite it having been clear that they weren’t interested. I would say someone choosing not to associate with a source of sexual harassment is mischaracterised as “a friend suddenly not giving you the time of day”

OP is assuredly in the wrong here. To suggest he isn’t is encouraging damaging and unproductive behaviour.
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Unread postby InternetShrink » 3 April 2020, 07:42

Marmaduke wrote:
InternetShrink wrote:
Marmaduke wrote:
InternetShrink wrote:
Cousin Itt wrote:Everything is wrong with me im broken but don't worry im going away for good this time I'm done I quit. I give up


Is everything wrong with you or is everything wrong with other people?

Him.

Hol up you dont mean CousinIt do you? I was trying to get him to see that there is nothing attributionaly wrong with him, but the guy he's having a hard time with. Maybe my logic is biased, but if someone you've been friends with for a while suddenly won't give you the light of day, something is attributionaly wrong with them.

No, you’ve not read the story properly. CousinIt has made repeated romantic and sexual advances to a platonic friend, despite it having been clear that they weren’t interested. I would say someone choosing not to associate with a source of sexual harassment is mischaracterised as “a friend suddenly not giving you the time of day”

OP is assuredly in the wrong here. To suggest he isn’t is encouraging damaging and unproductive behaviour.

My bad. I did read it wrong. You're right.
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Unread postby Jryski » 20 April 2020, 16:39

I’d say it’s probably best to build up your sense of self worth and your self esteem first before pursuing a relationship. Don’t go for nasty hoes. You’re worth more than that. If I were you, I’d pay him $60 just to leave me alone.
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Re: My rant

Unread postby theone » 21 April 2020, 03:54

Some guys like to play with our heads. I would recommend focusing on more productive avenues...
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