New guy and taking it easy?

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New guy and taking it easy?

Unread postby Zurdoknoc » 3 April 2019, 21:43

I’ve posted a few times kind of the same subject. It’s just something I’m experiencing for first time and it’s taking me a while to understand.
Met a guy in October. We had sex the first time. Then we started to see eachother once in a while I’d say sporadically. Then started talking on the phone and texto g daily. I like him and I’d like to date him but he is not “there yet” because he is out of a bad 5 year relationship last August. I don’t know where we stand. He has said he wants to wait until he is ready. We have not had sex since October. He knows I like him. I don’t know what he feels about me. We get along well as friends and we talk for long time about different subjects. Lately I’ve realized I want to date him. I am not sure if he is there and I am not sure if we should just talk about it. He kind of mentioned he is not there yet like a month ago but I cannot just sit there and wait for him to be ready (feel it is unfair to me)
I am slowly ghosting from him. Not sure if I should express how I feel to him and see where we stand. It’s been a couple of days since we last chatted. We have been panting tag with the phone. I’ve never experienced a slow process with someone.
Please advice and thanks for your understanding.
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Re: New guy and taking it easy?

Unread postby Victor_Laszlo » 4 April 2019, 00:27

Just talk to him. No one here can say how he's feeling.

Be honest and tell him how your feeling and see how he responds.

Good luck.

Sorry for the short response but its the only one i can give.
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Re: New guy and taking it easy?

Unread postby Zurdoknoc » 4 April 2019, 00:53

Don’t think will go well...but it’s unfair for me to feel this way and wait and wait and wait and wait
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