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Unread postby abclove » 9 February 2020, 13:24

Dear Friends
i am divorced father 38 and met a guy who is 28 and we been together in some how of an openrelationship as he wants
during the weekends i take care of my son and he go out with his frineds
recntly i notice he is being different i wanted to give him more cause at some point i feel we are not the best match so i told him i want to go out with u in a bar or club but i cant stay till 9 am next day or even more as i have to work and take care of my son too
so we made a date but at the same day we should go out he sent me a msg to cancle as he was busy with his cousine who was travling yesterday i met his cousine and he told me he never saw him more than an hour and he is away all the time didd not even sleep in the house
now i know he lied to me but why? is he ashame of me does he has a bf what is going on i am totally new to gays relationship so any advice will help thank you very much
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Re: relationship help

Unread postby Frigid » 10 February 2020, 16:17

Ask him
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Re: relationship help

Unread postby Revontulet » 11 February 2020, 23:41

I'm sorry, but he wants something, he lies about something, and you don't feel you're the best match. Plus if you two don't have a better communication, trust and a win-win solution, maybe it's time for you to stand in front of him and say: "Auf wiedersehen".

Best of luck.
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