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Unread postby bigmorel » 16 March 2019, 12:49

hello, im in relationship with a bottom who likes to be sub, i like him that way lol, he wanted threesome, we did it with another bottom, he is feminine and i don't mind that, now he wants to be full female and i don't like that idea, he dress sometimes for me to have good time in bed because that turns him on more, now he wants to do therapy so he can be total female, i don't like that but he keeps begging me to let him do that, he is begging for weeks now, i don't want to break up with him, any advice
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Re: relationship issue

Unread postby Eryx » 16 March 2019, 14:24

Well, if he's asking for that it's because he feels like a woman and wants to live life as one. I understand you love him as he is, but he is actually a she from what you're saying, so she'll probably be happier by transitioning. I don't think you should keep her from doing it, but if you feel like you want to be with a man, maybe you just can't be together. It's not fair for her to give up having the body she feels most comfortable in for a relationship.
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Re: relationship issue

Unread postby bigmorel » 16 March 2019, 14:36

Eryx wrote:Well, if he's asking for that it's because he feels like a woman and wants to live life as one. I understand you love him as he is, but he is actually a she from what you're saying, so she'll probably be happier by transitioning. I don't think you should keep her from doing it, but if you feel like you want to be with a man, maybe you just can't be together. It's not fair for her to give up having the body she feels most comfortable in for a relationship.

thank you for the reply, and physically he looks like a woman to be honest, i will give him/her little time more and i will think more about it and decide , thanks
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