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Relationship Issues

Unread postby Ramboi86 » 16 September 2019, 15:25

Long story short I went from a 9 year relationship to my current 1 year 8 month relationship in under a month while I was still in my last relationship. We have issues and need a break I dont have the money to move out and we live with his mom. Can anymore suggest anything else? I honestly dont have friends and the people I know live 3 hours away from my current location and that is to gar to travel for work. I love him and want things to work but we both know we need to apart to miss and think
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Re: Relationship Issues

Unread postby Eryx » 16 September 2019, 21:53

You need to find a job that can get you a room, at the very least. There is no easier solution, unfortunately. You can't let yourself get to the point where you need to live in your own car or be homeless, because it's a lot harder to get back from that than to get there. And if he decides he wants you gone, his mother won't be on your side.

Start looking for new opportunities, if you need to study, check if you can get a scholarship, paid intership, anything. You just need the bare minimum to have a bed, a stove and then you can take a breather and start sorting yourself out. Good luck!
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Re: Relationship Issues

Unread postby mxguy01 » 16 September 2019, 22:02

Well at the age of 33 one would hope to be better off. Here's your wake up call to start to do something about that. IMO you need independence first and get your life settled before worrying about relationships.
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Re: Relationship Issues

Unread postby Jryski » 17 September 2019, 00:22

I don't know you so I don't understand what your circumstances are. I'm not going to judge your living situation. Having said so, people need their personal space. Yall are basically living on top of each other and that's bound to drive someone crazy eventually. It would be a good idea to rent a cheap little room somewhere so you can stay with your boyfriend at times while having your own room away from him and his mother to retreat to from time to time.
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