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Re: Respectful curious straight man..

Unread postby Marmaduke » 10 August 2021, 08:03

LynxReloaded wrote:
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LynxReloaded wrote:i have outfits that cost more than your whole wardrobe

Ok, this’ll be fun, why don’t you model some outfits for us? Maybe link us to your Instagram where you post next to cars that aren’t yours in the parking lot of a target whilst wearing a fake Balenciaga t shirt.


i don't wear anything fake. i abhor fake stuff and fake people (like you). if you had expensive outfits like i do i doubt you would be so intent in trying to manufacture an image of me as having fake stuff. i understand, you're just a jealous little loser

and obviously delusional, because you keep insisting that you're part of an "us". (you're really desperate to manipulate others into supporting you....their support and feeling like you're part of an in-group sounds really important you - without checking the other thread, i think that was what, sign number seven of what a moron you are)...i know you're a deadfuck and all, but its okay to be your own person and not such a dependent-minded lowlife.

So you’re not gonna have a little flex for us? Because your intro lists your hobbies as “ I love counting my 100 dollar bills. Traveling...suites...living luxurious...living large...versace...louis vuitton...2,000 dollar bathing suits...24 karat gold faucets...flaunting status in public” and it’d be shame if you were full of shit and couldn’t back that up.
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Re: Respectful curious straight man..

Unread postby pozzie » 10 August 2021, 18:13

LynxReloaded wrote:
pozboro wrote:There are more important things in life - like the small kindnesses one does for strangers one will never see again.


umm, puke


don't choke on it. we'd absolutely hate that.
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Re: Respectful curious straight man..

Unread postby LynxReloaded » 11 August 2021, 12:37

Marmaduke wrote:
LynxReloaded wrote:
Marmaduke wrote:
LynxReloaded wrote:i have outfits that cost more than your whole wardrobe

Ok, this’ll be fun, why don’t you model some outfits for us? Maybe link us to your Instagram where you post next to cars that aren’t yours in the parking lot of a target whilst wearing a fake Balenciaga t shirt.


i don't wear anything fake. i abhor fake stuff and fake people (like you). if you had expensive outfits like i do i doubt you would be so intent in trying to manufacture an image of me as having fake stuff. i understand, you're just a jealous little loser

and obviously delusional, because you keep insisting that you're part of an "us". (you're really desperate to manipulate others into supporting you....their support and feeling like you're part of an in-group sounds really important you - without checking the other thread, i think that was what, sign number seven of what a moron you are)...i know you're a deadfuck and all, but its okay to be your own person and not such a dependent-minded lowlife.

So you’re not gonna have a little flex for us? Because your intro lists your hobbies as “ I love counting my 100 dollar bills. Traveling...suites...living luxurious...living large...versace...louis vuitton...2,000 dollar bathing suits...24 karat gold faucets...flaunting status in public” and it’d be shame if you were full of shit and couldn’t back that up.


look at you licking my toes. make sure you get all the sock lint in between each toe you little toe-licker. Yes, it is an undisputed fact that you are a jealous little loser who lives in his grandmother's basement...hating on my expensive outfits. i think one of my coats probably costs more than all the money you have in the bank.

now quoting from my original post shows just highlights the parasitic nature of your disposition. nipping at my ankles is what little dogs like yourself do best you mental dependent, hanging on my every word, hanging on my introduction post like a parasite, quoting from my past posts, regurgitating my profile, obsessing over what I write in regards to my lifestyle. yes, traveling, suites, living large, louis vuitton, 24 karat gold faucets, flaunting status in public, etc....you envious nobody!

another diversion from your stupid remark that (1) its a "tacit implication" that it's obvious I don't know that peas are small and the undisputed fact that (2) you're a dead fuck...
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Re: Respectful curious straight man..

Unread postby PopTart » 11 August 2021, 17:04

LynxReloaded wrote:
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pozboro wrote:Sure. Get out. See what happens. Whatchagotta lose? Only advice is to avoid our Lynxie - not really the friendly sort, but you probably figured that out already.


that's right. i am a complete fuckin bitch

Oh lynx. I had always hoped you had grown up and matured a little. How sad to find you having doubled down on the sad and desperate act that no doubt has alienated you from all the people in your life.

Your particular brand of "bitchy" stopped being laudable back before the turn of the millennium. It's no longer avant garde.

Move on.


i can get any guy i want dumbbell.

alienated?

people kiss my ass all day.

i have outfits that cost more than your whole wardrobe

Your all about appearance huh. How many posts I've made. How people view your sparring with Marmaduke, How sumptuous your wardrobe, how rich you are. The many guys you can have.

Yet you don't back anything up. As marmaduke said, let's see you put your money where your dullard mouth is.

You left the site years ago, and you know what? No one noticed. Because you didn't leave a substantial impression then and your antics won't now.

:lol:

pozboro wrote:what next: a dick-off to see who's bigger? :asleep:

Seems like Lynxes shtick, not that he'll ever show it, it's probably inverted.

Wouldn't that be a cruel hand dealt by fate, the universe made him retarded and gave him a nubby dick.

No wonder he so onerous. And bad at it.

Kinda feel sorry for him really.
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Re: Respectful curious straight man..

Unread postby Marmaduke » 11 August 2021, 18:47

LynxReloaded wrote:Lots of words, nothing said

So…full of shit then?

Seems kinda like you’re full of shit.

Like, certain. Certainly full of shit.
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Re: Respectful curious straight man..

Unread postby Severelius » 11 August 2021, 23:51

Lynx reminds me of a customer I used to get in my shop who'd brag constantly about his high-rolling lifestyle of 5-star hotel suites at Monaco Grand Prix events, thousand-dollar collector's watches, fabulous women throwing themselves at him all day... and who then applied to be our shop's cleaner and got fired after a week for failing to turn up.

Or at absolute best he comes across like one of those teenage girls who manufacture their social media to make themselves seem like they're the next fucking Beyonce or something, and its objectively incredibly amusing to see someone who claims to be a grown man acting like that.

Never change Lynx, you hilariously deluded bastard.
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Re: Respectful curious straight man..

Unread postby Jzone » 12 August 2021, 01:23

Severelius wrote:Never change Lynx, you hilariously deluded bastard.

I avoid involvement in cat fights on the forum. However, Lynx has had NO worthwhile contributions here. I don't know what motivates him(?) to post on this forum, but I hope it ends soon.
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Re: Respectful curious straight man..

Unread postby Subra » 12 August 2021, 15:41

Where's Sherri when you need her?
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Re: Respectful curious straight man..

Unread postby Brenden » 12 August 2021, 20:38

Lynx has been banned for 2 weeks as a final warning.
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Re: Respectful curious straight man..

Unread postby gnu » 28 August 2022, 17:12

I'm new to both forums and relations with men, but I'll give it a shot.

I heavily identified with Hairulieno's original post but got discouraged by some replies that were neither positive nor respectful.

I'm 67 and started my journey into male intimacy at around 62 after some 10 years of curiosity, then desire, and finally resolving myself to act upon my desires. As I've read in other posts, the first may not be wonderful - mine wasn't, it almost soured me on male intimacy altogether. I’d gone home with a man after just meeting him, a man I was not sure I even liked. But I was desperate to sample “the forbidden fruit.” Things went far too fast and beyond my boundaries so I abruptly left.

But my second, after a long hiatus, was fabulous. I attribute this success to extended correspondence wherein we became very familiar with each other, and even came to admire and desire each other. I knew what he wanted. He knew what I wanted. Our intimacy, when it finally came about, was wonderful. Unfortunately I moved and that fizzled out. But I will always recall the experience and the man quite fondly.

My desire and involvement with women has continued throughout my desire for men. I suppose I’m truly bisexual, a state I’d previously thought to be ideal - one doubles one’s “possibilities,” so went my thinking.

After a few acceptable flings over the ensuing years, I’ve been involved with a gay man for several months now. Initially, we started slowly agreeing that we were both in it for “friends with benefits,” non-committed status. But as time progressed, my girlfriend discovered our relationship and left me, and we decided we liked each other more than “friends with benefits.” We decided to become “boyfriends.” What that meant exactly, neither of us could precisely define but we agreed to have sex only with each other.

Now I have a dilemma. I’m finding that I’m liking him more than I’d planned. He tells me he feels the same way. Neither of us knows what to do about it. He’s gay and “out,” although it’s not outwardly obvious. I’m bisexual, masculine, and very discreet. We both live in a very conservative, small town wherein my very public work would be jeopardized were my private life revealed. So we maintain discretion.

However, I now find myself considering a “relationship” with him. The notion is both scary and attractive to me. I really enjoy being with him. Our sex is fabulous, even with all the bumps and hurdles that seem inevitable as men age. We have frank, honest, deep and interesting conversations. I can’t say I love him but I love making love to him - it seems to have gone from sex to making love for both of us.

But I’m frightened! Frightened of losing my standing in the community. Frightened of losing my “masculine” image. Frightened of losing my extremely rewarding occupation. Frightened of being labeled gay and never again being considered by women as a viable lover.

I do not want to “move in” together. But I would like to spend some nights together. I love it when we make love to sweaty exhaustion, nod off for a while,and wake to do it all over again, and again, and … . That would be easier and more frequent without “sneaking around.” I’d like to “go out” with him more openly to concerts, dinners and other social events - all quite impossible without me making some substantial sacrifices in my professional and public life. I suppose the choice is clear - Choose between private life and professional/public life, or move elsewhere.

Then my cherished bisexuality surfaces and reveals its ugly side. I continue to desire women and would like to be intimate with one. But I would feel badly about “cheating” on him (I already tried the cheating thing - it’s not for me, too hurtful and disingenuous). So do I abandon my desires for women? Or for him? I feel I must choose. This is another tough choice, and moving won’t help.

I wonder, after over a year, if Hairulieno has found his answers. My quest has become far more complicated and difficult. But it certainly is thrilling at an age when thrills are rare.

PS He’s out of town now and I can't wait until he returns.
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Re: Respectful curious straight man..

Unread postby NobodySpecial » 4 September 2022, 19:23

Gnu,
Thanks for sharing. We each have our own journey to take. For me, tomorrow is a special day for myself and my partner. Tomorrow is Labor Day in the US, and that marks 19 years that my guy and me have been together.

I don't have a problem with bisexuality per se. I never found the female body revolting. Rather, I have a much stronger pull to have a man's love. It always seemed like something missing inside my heart. I found out in my 20's that I was very infertile, so the thought of marrying yet not being able to sire kids turned me away from that. To get married and not able to sire kids seemed like it would be a constant reminder of my inadequacies.

Note, I have always wished i could impregnate a guy. Yes, I know it is impossible, but it has always been something that triggers my sex drive. When I look at a man, I think about how his personality and his looks might make for a parent. Note, the last thing I look for in a man is his cock. I just don't obsess about that. I figure it just "cums" with the territory of m2m sex. Where as the secondary characters -- muscle, body hair, facial hair, masculine voice, etc drive me out the wall.

Though I am unemployed, I always fear being totally out for the ramifications. We don't have gay stickers on our trucks. We don't dress effeminate. We don't live in a gay ghetto (we live on a farm), and we pretty much keep to ourselves. Still I fear to be totally out would mean consequences. I trust if it ever came down to it, I would come out if I had to.

We have always been there for each other. I stood by him several years ago when he had 5 bypasses. He was there for me every day for 5 weeks back in 2018 when I almost died from West Nile. More recently he stayed with me all night when I went to the ER because I had a thrombosis in my left calf due to taking a blood thinner.

You talk about terms like love, making love, in love, whatever... What does it matter? At the end of the day by whose bed do you want to put your shoes before you get into bed? For me it is my partner. We don't do much sex because I have ED, but even if there was a magic cure for it on the condition that I had sex with others, I wouldn't do it. My heart belongs to him. The older you get the more you realize that its about the heart -- not the gentile configuration.

I have to admit, sometimes I get really turned off by some bisexuals' definition of themselves. On another board I get on, it is all of a mind set "love-cock-not-men" -- as if you can separate a cock from the man it is attached to. Even though I'm a top, I know in my heart that seeing your man beside you as the first thing you see in the morning and the last thing you see at night far outweighs super fantastic sex when we had it. He's like a guardian angel to me.

PS: My partner and I are both 1959 models. We are exactly 5 months apart. Being 59'ers we are definitely of the senior model...
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Re: Respectful curious straight man..

Unread postby Quin » 17 September 2022, 13:23

Actually you may be bisexual and … I see your desires and if you do feel like it, some mild medication can help with the process and increase the pleasure too.
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