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Unread postby fernandoalex » 29 June 2020, 05:28

Hi all,

For those that are in vers-vers relationship, how often do you guys have sex?

Just wondering if any of you guys are in my situation. We’ve been together for a year. At the beginning our sex frequency was often but lately we rarely have sex. Maybe because the weather (it’s winter in Australia) so we just eat, watch tv, cuddle and sleep. And it is very comforting and happy enough for both of us.

We still love each other but both of us just don’t have the desire to have sex. Maybe because we are not really enjoying being btm.

So anyone are in my situation?

Thanks a lot. Xoxo
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Re: Sex frequency.

Unread postby Eryx » 29 June 2020, 14:01

My ex-boyfriend and I stayed together for 1 year and 9 months, but I broke up with him when we had a little over three months together, and after we got back together, we never had the same frequency as we did before. It would happen maybe two or three times a month, mostly because he would never let me go to his house, I live with my grandmother, and we'd get drunk too often when going out during the weekends, so we couldn't really perform when we got home.

My current boyfriend is a completely different story. It started slow at first because he'd have a really hard time cumming (he was taking a sleeping drug that made it much harder for him) and sometimes I'd just avoid getting to sex because I knew how long it would take after I was done for him to wrap things up. I know that might come out as selfish to some, but it's not something I did often, it's just something I did.

Fortunately for us, he doesn't need to take those drugs to sleep well anymore (I like to believe I helped :) heheheh) and it's become infinitely easier for him to cum. Our chemistry has only improved with time as well, so the best sessions we had were probably in the past couple of weeks. He's got bacterial tonsillitis so we haven't been having sex for the past week while he recovers, but before that we were doing it on the daily. He's the first person I'm with that actually makes me want to have sex all the time and do it so often. Before, I'd usually prefer doing other things and sex was just a different activity.

We've only been together for 9 months, so I don't know how it will change over time, but right now it's near perfect. :D

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Unread postby Ander1969 » 2 July 2020, 23:54

When were together we have it every day, or other day. He has a very high sex drive, me, not so much.
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