Should I worry?

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Should I worry?

Unread postby 80sbaby » 16 May 2020, 03:10

Me (31) and my boyfriend (34) have been together for one year now (our anniversary was on Monday). Since Tuesday, he hasn't called me boo or babe. And I am beginning to worry because the last guy who stopped calling me nickname or w/e suddenly broke up with me just a few months after(that relationship lasted less than 6 months). We have been separated due to quarantined and his roomie doesn't want anyone in the house (unless they live there of course, it is also her house). We talk briefly everyday, and nothing has changed much in our communication/conversation, besides the missing nickname of boo or babe. I know this lock down has gotten him down in the ruts because he is someone who needs a routine. I love him dearly, and I do not want to lose him.

So do I have anything to worry about?

Should I say something to him?

PS. This is my first relationship that lasted the longest and I hope it stays that way.
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Re: Should I worry?

Unread postby Eryx » 16 May 2020, 04:45

Maybe it is just the routine. 6 months relationship means it fizzled, but this one is at another stage. Maybe bring up conversations with teasing him, so that he can tease you back. Send pictures, funn and naughty, be silly, etc. If that doesn't work, just talk to him about it. In fact, you should do it anyway.
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Re: Should I worry?

Unread postby 80sbaby » 16 May 2020, 18:26

Eryx wrote:Maybe it is just the routine. 6 months relationship means it fizzled, but this one is at another stage. Maybe bring up conversations with teasing him, so that he can tease you back. Send pictures, funn and naughty, be silly, etc. If that doesn't work, just talk to him about it. In fact, you should do it anyway.


How should I bring it up? What should I say exactly?
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